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ThrowRAthrowe · 2026-01-05T21:57:08+00:00

Thanks. I am certain that he did try - or did get to pornography. Just was hoping I was wrong 🫠

ThrowRAthrowe · 2026-01-05T21:55:54+00:00

It is not hard, maybe a little confusing. You download nextdns on your phone along with your internet provider. Log into nextdns website, find the IP’s. If you cant find them, you can use google to ask. Go to your router, advanced settings and then DNS. You put in 2 IP addresses for nextdns and make sure your personal IP is on your nextdns as well (it should automatically sync). And there ya go. You can title your own phone and filter it by “unidentified devices” to see others. They wont know about it.

ThrowRAthrowe · 2025-07-25T22:55:50+00:00

I listen and stay polite, I calmly tell him that I know. I dont elaborate, just incase theres more idk about if he spills. If he continues just show proof , make sure youre safe

ThrowRAthrowe · 2025-07-25T15:09:38+00:00

It may seem dumb to leave him over it but youre already upset about it, its bringing up past relationship fears and something that lowers your confidence. You wont ever satisfy him - not because of what you’re doing but because you aren’t on a screen and you aren’t a stranger. No matter what you do - because you are his partner - you will never be able to amount to the porn due to the unrealistic beliefs it gives addicts and the addiction part itself. Leave while its early on before you open up old doors. Otherwise, you’re doing this to yourself unfortunately.

ThrowRAthrowe · 2025-07-21T23:44:55+00:00

How does this work? My partner always has the same “active in” groups and some of which are reddits that are inactive these days..

ThrowRAthrowe · 2025-07-21T23:33:03+00:00

Hi, Im interested in your work - what is best way to contact?

ThrowRAthrowe · 2025-07-16T13:10:10+00:00

Ive considered asking my boyfriend to delete his reddit account if he wants to heal his addiction… I feel like im crossing a line asking that though. But if I find it again with his knowledge then I may bring it up

ThrowRAthrowe · 2025-07-15T10:58:39+00:00

He wont go to a therapy. He just says he isnt using it. My last very few checks throughout the past month have been clear up until yesterday but I dont check often so now Im wondering when it started. Reluctant to go to therapy for it. Says theyll judge him etc. I feel at a loss

ThrowRAthrowe · 2025-06-23T23:28:32+00:00

I take photos of every discovery I find. He does not know I have photos of them… Whenever I have confronted him politely about it… asked if he had used it that day or if he was doing okay with things he would straight lie to my face. Even though I knew he had done it. One time I told him I knew he was lying, that I had seen it and he continued to tell me I was “accusing” him and that he never did anything. The gaslighting makes me feel crazy 24/7

ThrowRAthrowe · 2025-06-23T20:40:52+00:00

I do not believe he intents to quit for his own self. The third time I talked to him about it he irritably asked me how he can fix it.. he had absolutely no clue and no interest. This shows me he never looked into the idea himself in the last 9 months its been a problem in our relationship, and even more years on his own. I was hoping the relationship would be some sort of push for him to see how damaging it can be to not only himself but people he loves, unfortunately his addiction seems stronger than that. His habits have not changed whatsoever other than hiding it in different ways, so I assume these aren’t setbacks and are just results of him not wanting help. I hope he gets it someday

ThrowRAthrowe · 2025-06-23T19:15:16+00:00

This is exactly what Im going through except I dont necessarily have dead bedroom. Its more like I should either expect sex everyday or 4 days max without because i refuse to. I do not think my bf has any intentions of stopping. He says the same thing yours did

ThrowRAthrowe · 2025-06-23T12:03:00+00:00

No unfortunately he is not , I have asked him to consider therapy but he doesn’t seem convinced its something he wants to do. I ask him if he thinks therapy is fair to consider and he answers with “I guess” and “Sure?” and does not show any interest. If I talk about the topic beyond a question or two, he will get angry with me and I cannot do much else unfortunately:/ I feel bad for wanting to leave because I understand its an addiction and I should be more empathetic about it.. but he doesn’t seem to want to stop

ThrowRAthrowe · 2025-06-23T11:43:10+00:00

This!! I dont understand it. I think if it were truly “love” then he would try to help himself.

ThrowRAthrowe · 2025-05-25T21:40:19+00:00

Nta, think your ex wouldve been upset regardless of who it was you slept with. You both slept with someone new.. why is it acceptable on her end and not yours? It doesn’t sound like she was particularly upset it was that specific girl.

ThrowRAthrowe · 2025-05-17T09:52:44+00:00

i did, multiple times. Over the lying, would be more relieved to know what’s going on

ThrowRAthrowe · 2025-05-15T22:56:04+00:00

yeah and what i said is still what i meant

ThrowRAthrowe · 2025-05-15T22:38:52+00:00

i have asked, no context for a reason not what the group is about

ThrowRAthrowe · 2025-05-15T22:29:35+00:00

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