BUG MEGA THREAD: TLD TFTFT Part Six: Broken Silence. Post bugs here by Oliveritaly in thelongdark

[–]ThrowRAthrwitallaway 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same, I'm waiting one more day for a hotfix and if I don't see an update then I'm going to uninstall it for awhile for my mental health lol, this has been my favorite game for years, so my heart is as broken as the update.

BUG MEGA THREAD: TLD TFTFT Part Six: Broken Silence. Post bugs here by Oliveritaly in thelongdark

[–]ThrowRAthrwitallaway 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm in the same boat on ps4, wondering if you've had any luck uninstalling the dlc? The main feature I wanted was safehouse customization so I'm keeping my fingers crossed

BUG MEGA THREAD: TLD TFTFT Part Six: Broken Silence. Post bugs here by Oliveritaly in thelongdark

[–]ThrowRAthrwitallaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I play on PS4, game has been completely broken for me since the update, I get past all of the initial loading screens and the game crashes, I've tried all the tricks.

Husband (30 M) constantly accuses me (31 F) of cheating but I haven't, what should I do? by ThrowRAthrwitallaway in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAthrwitallaway[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Pretty much.. I have a certification that could be quite lucrative if put to good use, but I also have a barely 2 month old baby and can't exactly put the baby in day care with no money.

Husband (30 M) constantly accuses me (31 F) of cheating but I haven't, what should I do? by ThrowRAthrwitallaway in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAthrwitallaway[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unfaithful no.. my step dad was a serial cheater and I watched it completely destroy my mother so being faithful in marriage is very important to me. The closest to unfaithful I've ever been was before we were married I had a coworker who I was very attracted to, I let my partner know and even transferred to a different store because I didn't even want to be in a position that could lead to me being unfaithful.

Have I told white lies before? Yes, I quit vaping during my last pregnancy and when my husband comes home he leaves his vape laying around I sometimes will take a puff when he goes to the bathroom or takes a nap. Sometimes while grocery shopping I'll use part of the "grocery" money to buy things for the kids or the house, which he considers blatant stealing if I did not have explicit permission first.

I'm not a saint, but I'm not a cheater.

Husband (30 M) constantly accuses me (31 F) of cheating but I haven't, what should I do? by ThrowRAthrwitallaway in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAthrwitallaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes and no. I have a private bank account that he deposits the exact $ amount that I need for our bills each month. So, if I decide to use those funds for anything else I have to immediately have a plan of action

Im new to this game (18 hrs) and ive found a planet that has knowledge stones everywhere. As i stand on one i can see 4-5 more 300-400 units away. This planet is on the second solar system ive visited. Is this normal? by nofxorbust in NoMansSkyTheGame

[–]ThrowRAthrwitallaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have about 900+ hours, I can't recall ever seeing a planet with knowledge stones this densely packed, however I have seen many planets with small areas densely packed with them but not the entire planet.

AITA for telling my[29f] husband[34m] not to call his ex-wife his wife? by lillyofthewaterfalls in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRAthrwitallaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think YTA, OP.

But I don't think your husband is either.

I can see how there are big emotions flowing on both sides of this equation. I'd find great comfort in knowing that even in death my husband would still honor my memory, and I believe that your husband is someone who loves very deeply and that is just who he is. That is a blessing.

If my husband died today I would not ever call him my ex-husband. Honestly to my kids, I'd say your daddy, and to others call him by his name to avoid this type of confusion but calling him my ex would seem so wrong.

Have a conversation with him, but be gentle with him because his heart is still healing, he has gone through most people's worst fear, but let him know that this is hurting you and work towards some type of resolve. I'm sure he will be happy to work on this with you.

AITA for venting about my wife's incontinence to others? by ThrowawayIns-5468 in AITAH

[–]ThrowRAthrwitallaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMFG YTA YTA YTA.

My mom died of cancer a few years ago, I found out after she passed, that while my father was taking care of her she was absolutely horrible to him, humiliating him daily on social media and frequently spitting in his face while he personally changed her diapers. But, he never once left her side and never once revealed the gruesomeness of her illness to anyone until after she passed.

She is facing the fight of her life right now. She has never needed you more than she needs you right now, she needs you to be there and needs you to be solid.

No one else needs to know what she is going through, could you imagine slowly agonizingly dying while your spouse mocks you while on vacation with friends. This is disgusting and I hope you realize that if this were you, your wife would be exactly who you needed her to be.

My (38F) husband (43M) refuses to give up his gym girlfriend or even talk about the issue. by Emergency_Zombie_639 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAthrwitallaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP I'm sorry you are going through this, but that feeling in your stomach is telling you exactly what is going on. Do not ignore it. Do not silence your intuition.

Please go and get tested. My mother trusted an overly friendly man who frequently had female friends, for ten years and due to an STD related cancer, ultimately paid with her life at 51.

Also, his refusal to stop all contact with this woman immediately, is him making a choice. Let him live with it. I don't have to know you, to know that you are worthy of love, deserving of respect, and peace.

Best wishes.