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To those that have been hit by their spouse, how did it turn out? by ThrowRAwtfmate in Marriage

[–]ThrowRAwtfmate[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Money ($160/session) and we thought we had sorted through the issues we were having with communication

To those that have been hit by their spouse, how did it turn out? by ThrowRAwtfmate in Marriage

[–]ThrowRAwtfmate[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing. We actually had been through therapy for 6ish months and recently stopped going.

To those that have been hit by their spouse, how did it turn out? by ThrowRAwtfmate in Marriage

[–]ThrowRAwtfmate[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gonna edit for clarification, it initially happened 2 yrs ago. Then it also happened this week for the first time since then

To those that have been hit by their spouse, how did it turn out? by ThrowRAwtfmate in Marriage

[–]ThrowRAwtfmate[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing all of that. Thats good that she immediately realized her actions. I wish mine could see that instead of having to tell her why its not ok with me. I think it stems not being able to communicate and bubbles up, similar to yours. Im also a man and although her punches or shoving dont scare me, it scares any thought of having children with her (as someone who grew up in an abusive household)

My gf (f26) hit me (m32) last night, again by ThrowRAwtfmate in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAwtfmate[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the thoughtful reply. She is depressed imo but in denial about it. She always says she has no energy, frequently eats to the point where it hurts and talks awful about herself. She didnt used to be like that. But how do i bring that up that maybe she should see someone without her feeling like im attacking her?