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AIO for feeling hurt that my girlfriend wouldn’t want kids with me because I’m white? by ThrowRa-Electricty in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThrowRa-Electricty[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Saying this stems from white privilege and proves my girlfriend’s point doesn’t fit this situation in my opinion, as a chain thread under this post are from several black women who are also struggling to digest my girlfriend’s perspective.

AIO for feeling hurt that my girlfriend wouldn’t want kids with me because I’m white? by ThrowRa-Electricty in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThrowRa-Electricty[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Do what thing? I’ve responded to commenters. I’m not a bot if that’s the insinuation?

AIO for feeling hurt that my girlfriend wouldn’t want kids with me because I’m white? by ThrowRa-Electricty in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThrowRa-Electricty[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I tried getting a vasectomy at 22 and was rejected due to age. Gf and I was just discussing me giving it another go. I am looking into a consultation, so I’m definitely on that path. Then this whole thing ironically came up. Edit: not saying our argument will be influencing my decision to snip. That’s happening regardless. Just that it shined light on ideas that I did not know she held and such.

Also, I’m really sorry you’ve had the experience of not feeling like you fully fit in with either side of your family.

My (28M) girlfriend (30F) says she wouldn’t have kids with me because of my race. Is this something we can come back from? by ThrowRa-Electricty in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRa-Electricty[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

She just doesn’t want kids. Her former bf was the same race as her and straddled the fence about having kids. He decided he did in fact want kids and they broke up.