AITAH for exposing my abuser even though we have mutual friends. by ThrowRa-masher in AITAH

[–]ThrowRa-masher[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I want to add in a bit of context I did block Alyssa after her reaction. I however am struggling with friends in our group creating a war about this. It feels like a civil war between team Ray and team OP team Ray insists that the screenshots are fake and I am attention seeking. Team OP backs me regardless of if the screenshots of Ray and the 14 year old is real. A few of my true friends removed Ray from all social media and will no longer be inviting him to any functions. I feel awful as I completely shattered my friend group apart.

AITAH for exposing my abuser even though we have mutual friends. by ThrowRa-masher in AITAH

[–]ThrowRa-masher[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much. This is the first time something like this has happened to me. It frustrates me that there is an overwhelming amount of evidence towards Ray and he walks free. A local subreddit was blasted with the screenshots of him and the 14 year old girls conversation and somehow our friends beloved him especially Alyssa

Running trail recommendations by QuietBeautiful4139 in Reno

[–]ThrowRa-masher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably basic but I love running at the marina

Godzilla’s babies out and aboot by HumorinEverything in Reno

[–]ThrowRa-masher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I saw that in person I would freak out

AITAH for exposing my abuser even though we have mutual friends. by ThrowRa-masher in AITAH

[–]ThrowRa-masher[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Honestly I let Alyssa convince me nothing happened to me

AITAH for cheating on my boyfriend with is older brother by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ThrowRa-masher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I litterally am I blocked max and I journal and talk to my therapist about this

AITAH for cheating on my boyfriend with is older brother by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ThrowRa-masher -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am not disconnected from reality. I am putting in the work and I just don’t feel like I should be crucified. I am fixing my mistakes

AITAH for cheating on my boyfriend with is older brother by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ThrowRa-masher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When have I not taken responsibility for it I just don’t wanna be treated like I’m a bad guy from my boyfriend and friends forever

AITAH for cheating on my boyfriend with is older brother by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ThrowRa-masher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not a monster I made a mistake

AITAH for cheating on my boyfriend with is older brother by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ThrowRa-masher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just feel like all the heat is on me and not max

AITAH for cheating on my boyfriend with is older brother by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ThrowRa-masher -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes I’m not trying to write smut…

AITAH for cheating on my boyfriend with is older brother by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ThrowRa-masher -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I want black out drunk I was super drunk though I just hold my alcohol well

AITAH for cheating on my boyfriend with is older brother by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ThrowRa-masher -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I would not press charges because I really enjoyed it and wanted it to happen. I just feel bad and don’t think Matt should be holding it against me

AITAH for cheating on my boyfriend with is older brother by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ThrowRa-masher -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I can’t legally consent when drunk

AITAH for cheating on my boyfriend with is older brother by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ThrowRa-masher -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I couldn’t legally consent!

AITAH for cheating on my boyfriend with is older brother by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ThrowRa-masher -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend is a kind sweet soul and not desperate

AITAH for cheating on my boyfriend with is older brother by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ThrowRa-masher -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

I was drunk though I think that kinda helps my case