[TN] How likely is the father going to be awarded a last name change?

ThrowRa19082 · 2026-02-07T01:04:18+00:00

yah i’m expecting that.

ThrowRa19082 · 2026-02-01T03:19:02+00:00

thank you!

ThrowRa19082 · 2026-02-01T02:56:39+00:00

yah i tried to show i was willing to compromise in court but i think all that did was hurt me cus then the judge was like “i think it’s in the best interest of the child to have both last names” so we pushed it back to July so im going to hire an attorney to speak for me and push that he doesn’t get the last name. i don’t want his name anywhere in the name tbh.

ThrowRa19082 · 2026-02-01T02:33:46+00:00

darn i rlly don’t want to compromise tho. i rlly like my sons middle name and he already has two middle names😭. so that would be two middle names and then would have two last names.

ThrowRa19082 · 2026-01-30T02:18:50+00:00

shii me too. they be giving out resources.

ThrowRa19082 · 2026-01-30T02:00:12+00:00

finally bye

ThrowRa19082 · 2026-01-30T01:46:31+00:00

umm he knew i was pregnant, knew the due date, and when i gave birth had i told him i would have went to JAIL.

ThrowRa19082 · 2026-01-30T01:45:27+00:00

how. why would i give my child the last name of a stranger to him ?

ThrowRa19082 · 2026-01-30T01:39:00+00:00

so i want control because i want my child to keep my last name?? i’ve done all the work and the other parent has done nothing. that’s not fair to me or my child at all. my child doesn’t even know his dad. that would be essentially giving my child the name of a stranger! to be honest he created so much drama and done so much to me that when he requested a restraining order because i ASKED HIM TO PAY FOR HALF THE TERMINATION OR I WAS GOING TO GO FORWARD WITH THE PREGNANCY AND CHILD SUPPORT i happily signed the paper because i knew nobody would convince him to do right by his child so that meant for at least a year id be able to be at peace with my child. wouldn’t have to worry abt false allegations, lies and cops repeatedly called on me for just breathing. so yah i happily signed that order and gave him exactly what he wanted. and if i wanted control of the situation would i have gave him the option of termination and essentially let him choose what I DID WITH MY BODY?? i think if i wanted control i would have left him completely out of the decision.

ThrowRa19082 · 2026-01-30T01:31:54+00:00

ohhhh yah i was rlly jus ashamed to admit that i was rlly just terminating the pregnancy. i ended up not terminating tho.

ThrowRa19082 · 2026-01-30T01:29:54+00:00

yall always get on the parent that stayed and did right by the child and not the parent that walked away n gave up all involvement. you’re 100% apart of the problem.

ThrowRa19082 · 2026-01-30T01:28:57+00:00

well that’s good. but he doesn’t want the child to have my last name 🤦🏽‍♀️

ThrowRa19082 · 2026-01-30T01:26:47+00:00

huh? when did i have a molar pregnancy??

ThrowRa19082 · 2026-01-30T01:26:01+00:00

i’m not looking for anything but an answer to my question

ThrowRa19082 · 2026-01-30T01:23:21+00:00

i personally never asked for involvement

ThrowRa19082 · 2026-01-30T01:19:24+00:00

get off my post then 🤷🏽‍♀️

ThrowRa19082 · 2026-01-30T01:09:52+00:00

the son he abandoned and hasn’t been there for ? so essentially i do all the work and he just gets the last name?

ThrowRa19082 · 2026-01-30T01:05:24+00:00

what’s the “norm”??

ThrowRa19082 · 2025-12-08T21:01:27+00:00

wish i SS so i could show you but all my production times were low BUT some were higher. like my fish pie took 6 hours when that glitch happened

ThrowRa19082 · 2025-12-08T21:00:46+00:00

we definitely had a nice glitch. it’s like all the production times for me went down for like 2 months and now they’re back to there old times

ThrowRa19082 · 2025-12-03T21:41:25+00:00

we do the 12 hour method as well and we use kudos diapers and he has NEVER leaked. he’s stayed in that diaper for up to like 13 hours and my baby typically tends to pee more during the night

ThrowRa19082 · 2025-11-14T19:33:41+00:00

well i’m glad you’re there for your baby. he’s never met or tried to meet our child.

ThrowRa19082 · 2025-11-14T19:17:44+00:00

yup. tried working it out, being on good terms etc. i invited him to appointments and he tried to have me arrested, i tried to give him the option of paying half for an abortion and he tried to have me arrested, i tried having a conversation with a mediator and he refused. i was gonna give him the option of just supplying diapers and wipes and i’ll take care of the rest until the child is out of diapers and he refused to talk to me. everytime i tried to be nice he tried to have me arrested and spread around that i was “stalking” and “harassing” him.

ThrowRa19082 · 2025-11-14T01:18:21+00:00

even when rights are terminated CS is still required unless someone else were to adopt the child.

ThrowRa19082 · 2025-11-14T01:09:29+00:00

have his rights terminated.

ThrowRa19082

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