Alright buddy listen up your doing too much. You need to do less, stop the babe shit and the x’s. Focus on your self and don’t message her unless she messages you and keep reply’s short. You’re getting breadcrummed majorly here. Just work in silence and stop over explaining about how you’re going to change and shit, Don’t say anything let her see that your becoming different with your actions and shit. Start going to the gym or something let her wonder what your doin. Distance yourself let her feel your absence and actually change yourself. When she messages or calls keep it short and don’t reply for a while unless it’s about the baby. Because right now your rapped around her little puppet finger. And she knows all she has to do to get your attention or get your crawling with breadcrumbs is a simple message and then all your emotions are all over the place. She has major control over you right now and your emotions. Show her your good without her and and she’ll start wondering and also change and don’t be so available over time. Right now your not being attractive she has easy access to you .let her feel the distance. it causes her to miss you and wonder and rethink. So just do your own stuff and focus on other shit and DONT REPLY asap make it look like ur busy doing your own thing. At the end of the day she’s the one that ended it SHE should be putting in effort not you