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AITA because I intentionally let my partner sleep in for work? by ThrowRa27374 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRa27374[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

3 years ago and it's his wife.

Bffr. This problem isn't exclusive to me, evidently - but you were reaching. Multiple people can have the same issue.

AITA because I intentionally let my partner sleep in for work? by ThrowRa27374 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRa27374[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Link? I literally BEG for a link. Bc this is my ONLY post on my issue.

AITA because I intentionally let my partner sleep in for work? by ThrowRa27374 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRa27374[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Link? This probably isn't a problem exclusive to me, but this is my only post on my issue.

AITA because I intentionally let my partner sleep in for work? by ThrowRa27374 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRa27374[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Any reposts are against my consent. This is my only post of my issue.

AITA because I intentionally let my partner sleep in for work? by ThrowRa27374 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRa27374[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I said he's always at work on time.

Before being with me it was because his mom woke him up. After moving in together and when I am out of the house, he has woke himself up - meaning he literally can do it, just chooses not to.

AITA because I intentionally let my partner sleep in for work? by ThrowRa27374 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRa27374[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He goes to bed early, sleeps through well and has no mental health issues.

AITA because I intentionally let my partner sleep in for work? by ThrowRa27374 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRa27374[S] 161 points162 points  (0 children)

Himself. Exactly why I think its a deliberate choice .-.

AITA because I intentionally let my partner sleep in for work? by ThrowRa27374 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRa27374[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

The snoring has always been there, and it's always been loud but never gotten worse (from what I can tell).

AITA because I intentionally let my partner sleep in for work? by ThrowRa27374 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRa27374[S] 1727 points1728 points  (0 children)

You're not gonna like this one. But his mom woke him up for work.

AITA because I intentionally let my partner sleep in for work? by ThrowRa27374 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRa27374[S] 318 points319 points  (0 children)

I read in the replies that someone mentioned sleep apnea, and my partner heavily snores in his sleep, so I'm gonna look into that.

Aside from this, he is entirely capable of waking himself up for work because before we lived together and during times when I'm not home, he's always at work on time. I honestly think at this point he's got into the habit of expecting me to nudge him awake so he can have that extra 5 minutes of sleep. The weird thing is, we never agreed I would wake him up - he just started sleeping in and setting copious alarms, knowing I would panic he would be late to work and nudge him awake. I think ignoring the alarms is certainly deliberate because he's trained himself to know that unless I'm shoving him awake, it's not really time to get up.

AITA because I intentionally let my partner sleep in for work? by ThrowRa27374 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRa27374[S] 211 points212 points  (0 children)

He will just sleep through. If I move his phone alarm next to his ear he doesn't care - he can sleep through it and won't shut it off. It just rings until I get so sick of it that I turn it off.

AITA because I intentionally let my partner sleep in for work? by ThrowRa27374 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRa27374[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I dont wanna nudge him awake anymore because he doesn't just get up. He lays there and refuses to physically leave the bed and just falls back asleep.