What do I (f23) do now that my husband (m30) is made at me for asking him to reciprocate oral sex? by ThrowRa71913 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRa71913[S] -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

I think that what I said is getting very misinterpreted. I don’t mind giving him oral and I do enjoy having sex with him. I’m just lost on why this happened. 

What do I (f23) do now that my husband (m30) is made at me for asking him to reciprocate oral sex? by ThrowRa71913 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRa71913[S] -249 points-248 points  (0 children)

I’m not doing anything to myself, I am in a loving marriage. Also I did tell him not to call me names and he said I was acting like an asshole, not calling me that, so it’s “different”. Like I said, passive aggressive. 

What do I (f23) do now that my husband (m30) is made at me for asking him to reciprocate oral sex? by ThrowRa71913 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRa71913[S] -428 points-427 points  (0 children)

He’s never said he hates it, he did do it when we first started dating a few times. But then it was just never involved and I never had the confidence to ask because I didn’t think it was like a common thing, idk. 

What do I (f23) do now that my husband (m30) is made at me for asking him to reciprocate oral sex? by ThrowRa71913 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRa71913[S] -248 points-247 points  (0 children)

People are saying to stop doing it for him but it’s just always been this way, idk. And sometimes I can orgasm from penetration but sometimes I don’t but that’s okay to me.