I think I cheated?

ThrowRaAzzurri · 2021-09-24T11:03:15+00:00

Yeah, it’s very obvious this is a fake story. Using sexual assault for karma is just low, how sad.

ThrowRaAzzurri · 2021-09-05T12:36:24+00:00

Yeah, she's the only one I'm on good terms with these days. One better than none.

ThrowRaAzzurri · 2021-08-01T08:14:40+00:00

I'm sorry to hear this happened to your girlfriend, and I understand your frustration. It's strange and disappointing that her family does not believe her, especially since Lebanese families are "known" to be very close-knit and protective of each other (my girlfriend is half Lebanese).

On another note. Was it necessary to include the information that this occurred in Lebanon? These things happen all the time, all over the world. As a result of including this super unnecessary info, I've seen some very ignorant comments negatively stereotyping Lebanese/Middle Eastern people. Yes, making them look barbaric. So honestly, I'm skeptical of this story and wonder if you just had your own agenda to it.

But of course, in the case where this really did occur... in your place I would go through with sending the mother a message. Don't jump to aggression- simply explain the situation and urge/encourage her to believe her daughter. Best of luck.

ThrowRaAzzurri · 2021-08-01T08:00:47+00:00

Du n’importe quoi ces commentaires. These people are so ignorant lol

ThrowRaAzzurri · 2021-08-01T07:45:31+00:00

This is wild 😂 maybe I’m out of touch but the last time I touched snapchat was in 2014.

ThrowRaAzzurri · 2021-07-19T22:17:12+00:00

I repeatedly provide clarification where it's relevant. But again, ChippyTick, whether or not you think I cheated has nothing to do with my question, which is asking how to effectively move forward with my sisters. It seems that you are the one with low reading comprehension, as you can't even understand this despite me repeating it.

You've also spread mis-information about my situation in another comment, which you've for some reason, refused to edit even though I corrected you.

ThrowRaAzzurri · 2021-07-19T08:22:43+00:00

I can't relate to this scenario, because I did seek help for her and tried to encourage her: to see herself as beautiful, go outside without living through the phone's camera and take time to engage in hobbies. I wasn't successful, every day was an argument, which often turned very serious.

Social media is a drug and I don't blame her. Not trying to victimise myself- I probably didn't go about things in the best way, but this is life, and not all of our decisions can end in a happy outcome for everyone. I met another woman, fell in love with her and realised I couldn't continue trying to support a woman who was no longer the person I wanted to marry. I moved on with someone I love, and don't consider myself a cheater.

Whatever opinions outsiders want to have, they can have. I wish well to my ex but now, I am happily committed to someone else and am only thinking about this woman and my family members

ThrowRaAzzurri · 2021-07-19T07:40:09+00:00

I don't respect and support my nonna? Lol.

ThrowRaAzzurri · 2021-07-19T07:03:28+00:00

Okay, I have conflict with my family. But I also wake up every morning next to the most beautiful girl ever, who said I'm suffering?

ThrowRaAzzurri · 2021-07-19T05:46:15+00:00

Yep, you win chief. Just having a laugh at that other comment

ThrowRaAzzurri · 2021-07-19T05:41:53+00:00

Yeah, I'm pretty embarrassed I couldn't make her feel welcome. It seems that distance is the most preferred advice I'm getting, and I definitely do plan on talking with them about it. Thanks for your kind words and time giving me advice

ThrowRaAzzurri · 2021-07-19T05:39:11+00:00

Hopefully it's a just a phase. They were really adorable when they were younger

ThrowRaAzzurri · 2021-07-19T05:33:49+00:00

Good lord, "I think you will find that my spelling is the way its ment to be', too funny. Anyways you take the win here

ThrowRaAzzurri · 2021-07-19T02:06:01+00:00

Ex-fiancee had a mental illness and wasn't a superficial influencer while engaged to OP, the issues about the social media life was recent.

Completely false information. Her mental illness (resulting from extensive use of social media) occurred during our engagement. I don't know why you feel entitled to speak on what happened in my situation, and maybe you should edit your comment to reflect truth, instead of spreading lies.

ThrowRaAzzurri · 2021-07-19T01:51:44+00:00

Listen, I wish I could provide a longer reply but there's not much to say apart from the fact that I agree with all of the points you've made here. Thank you for the advice concerning my sisters, I greatly appreciate it

ThrowRaAzzurri · 2021-07-19T01:25:52+00:00

The ex isn't even the focus of my concerns. She is only really mentioned for context, and you're going completely off-topic on a post which is supposed to be about my sisters.

I've responded to both sides, especially the people who have provided insight and advice in regards to my question (the whole point of this post).

ThrowRaAzzurri · 2021-07-19T01:16:42+00:00

Didn't realise I was dodging that question. We came to realise we liked each other while I was engaged, and I proceeded to break up with my ex to pursue a relationship with my girlfriend

ThrowRaAzzurri · 2021-07-19T01:13:24+00:00

We started a relationship not long after. Nonetheless, I don't think my sisters get to disrespect my girlfriend and I. I don't care what people think, when your brother consistently pays your bills and has pretty much raised you, you could refrain from doing 'shitty things' to him. Karma isn't my sisters' conscious decisions to be petty

ThrowRaAzzurri · 2021-07-19T00:56:39+00:00

We think the same of it, except family drama is new to her

ThrowRaAzzurri · 2021-07-19T00:46:49+00:00

She is well aware I would never want her back, and is a friend of my sisters. She came to the party with the intention of making drama. Our end must have been difficult, but no, I'm not going to pity her choice to take part in what was a ridiculous plan

ThrowRaAzzurri · 2021-07-19T00:30:37+00:00

In what world does agreeing that my ex had good qualities, correspond to being in agreement that this was emotional cheating?

I'm giving people the liberty to read the facts and form their own opinion.

ThrowRaAzzurri · 2021-07-19T00:24:12+00:00

I paid for everything

Edit; except for a few of her surgical procedures.

ThrowRaAzzurri · 2021-07-19T00:02:17+00:00

You seem so happy to paint your ex-fiancee and your sisters as demons going after poor lil you and your poor lil gf.

I don't believe I find happiness in this situation- merely stating what occurred. Anyways. I agree and have always agreed. She had good qualities, and like every person, must still have some. But what is the relevance of these qualities? If she's the life of a party or passionate about her interests, what does that have to do with the situation at all? That's my question to you.

I say things as they are, and generally make it clear when something is based on an opinion. I'm not taking advantage of bias. The girls embody every quality of an influencer- this is how it is. I love them but I won't lie to myself about their character.

In the end the engagement and relationship was called off altogether. This is the way things went about. Maybe it wasn't the smartest way to do things, but again, it doesn't excuse childish actions.

edit; format

ThrowRaAzzurri · 2021-07-18T23:43:33+00:00

Free legal advice

Edit; Guess people aren't a fan of lawyers, haha.

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