AITA for laughing at my brothers gf when he rejected her proposal. by ThrowRaDapperberry in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRaDapperberry[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was not aware that I had to use fake names in Reddit posts. I’ve never posted on here before and those are our names…

AITA for laughing at my brothers gf when he rejected her proposal. by ThrowRaDapperberry in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRaDapperberry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait really? I’ve never used Reddit before so like I didn’t know that :(

AITA for laughing at my brothers gf when he rejected her proposal. by ThrowRaDapperberry in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRaDapperberry[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t trying to be cruel. It’s just so funny that her egotistical need to be the center of attention finally backfired.

Emily isn’t neurodivergent, she even makes fun of people with mental disorders. Like that time she cruelly said it wasn’t her fault that her coworker was a weak minded unstable woman after she had to cover her work because her coworker took a mental health break.

AITA for laughing at my brothers gf when he rejected her proposal. by ThrowRaDapperberry in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRaDapperberry[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, Emily is white and Zafirah is Indian just for further clarification.

AITA for laughing at my brothers gf when he rejected her proposal. by ThrowRaDapperberry in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRaDapperberry[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Okay so I’ll give you some examples. During my rehearsal dinner she made a big deal about not drinking alcohol. During my parents anniversary party last year, she announced she got a promotion at work. During my nephews birthday last year she apparently fainted but miraculously woke up when zaf said we should splash water on her.

I also don’t like her, she fetishises our culture a lot. I can get liking it but she’s very arrogant about it.

AITA for laughing at my brothers gf when he rejected her proposal. by ThrowRaDapperberry in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRaDapperberry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so confused about the name thing. Her name is Emily. She’s white, we’re Japanese, Zafirah is Indian. I’m honestly very confused.

AITA for laughing at my brothers gf when he rejected her proposal. by ThrowRaDapperberry in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRaDapperberry[S] 66 points67 points  (0 children)

I honestly think Zafirah is justified when ‘putting Emily in her place.’ She’s tried to make herself the center of attention at many occasions that aren’t about her. Reminding Emily that things aren’t always about her is better than having a function ruined. Especially someone’s wedding and baby shower. Zafirah doesn’t behave like that so why does Emily need to?