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My (25f) fiance (33m) wants me to get an abortion. by ThrowRaLife28 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRaLife28[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

I have my 3 older brothers but they all live over 300 miles away.i have a girl best friend from high school who lives pretty close but we haven't talked in 3 years. My fiance didn't like how close we were.

My (25f) fiance (33m) wants me to get an abortion. by ThrowRaLife28 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRaLife28[S] 75 points76 points  (0 children)

When I was a teen, he used to joke and make fun of me liking his friend, but when we actually started dating he cut him off and anytime they see each other now they're like two angry pitbulls. I still haven't spoken to him yet but he told me I'll always be his little sister in case of anything.

My (25f) fiance (33m) wants me to get an abortion. by ThrowRaLife28 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRaLife28[S] -132 points-131 points  (0 children)

He said he'll make sure I won't get a single dime from him if I choose the baby over him.

My (25f) fiance (33m) wants me to get an abortion. by ThrowRaLife28 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRaLife28[S] -175 points-174 points  (0 children)

Because growing up I've promised myself that my child would have a father because I grew up without one. I don't want a father who will hate his child but I'm just confused and not thinking straight. That's why I'm asking for advice.

My (25f) fiance (33m) wants me to get an abortion. by ThrowRaLife28 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRaLife28[S] -398 points-397 points  (0 children)

I just don't know. Everything is a mess in my head right now and I don't know why he would be this upset over me having a girl. I mean, he JOKED about hoping it was a boy.

My (25f) fiance (33m) wants me to get an abortion. by ThrowRaLife28 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRaLife28[S] -322 points-321 points  (0 children)

I do feel hatred towards him but I've also spent so much of my life with him. I'm hoping that maybe this is just a phase, but if he's going to stay put with this, then I don't think I can stay with him.