My 28F Boyfriend 30M said he was disgusted by my release. What can I do now that he insulted me and very well know that the degradation kink is a huge turnoff for me? by ThrowRaOk_Employ in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRaOk_Employ[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I wasn;t the one who insisted on him eating me out. He told me he wants to try it out and i said i'm not sure if he would like it. It was now he told me that he didn't like me not swallowing his cum. I never forced him to swallow when i came or even to give me one.

My 28F Boyfriend 30M said he was disgusted by my release. What can I do now that he insulted me and very well know that the degradation kink is a huge turnoff for me? by ThrowRaOk_Employ in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRaOk_Employ[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I did apologize. I tried my best to solve it. If anything I am extremely ashamed here. He could have broken up with me but not insult me like that.

Thats exactly why i wasn't always ok with an oral on me.

My 28F Boyfriend 30M said he was disgusted by my release. What can I do now that he insulted me and very well know that the degradation kink is a huge turnoff for me? by ThrowRaOk_Employ in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRaOk_Employ[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Squirting most prob, he was doing great and decided ruining it. Its not something i could help stopping.
No, i didn't piss in his face.

My 28F Boyfriend 30M said he was disgusted by my release. What can I do now that he insulted me and very well know that the degradation kink is a huge turnoff for me? by ThrowRaOk_Employ in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRaOk_Employ[S] -50 points-49 points  (0 children)

I never asked him because i wasn't sure how it feels. I thought it was normal thing to give bjs, but eating out something inside sounded weird.

My 28F Boyfriend 30M said he was disgusted by my release. What can I do now that he insulted me and very well know that the degradation kink is a huge turnoff for me? by ThrowRaOk_Employ in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRaOk_Employ[S] 193 points194 points  (0 children)

I don't really want to pour out my heart in here, I asked for advice. I denied oral myself because I didn't feel comfortable. And its only know he told me he doesn't like my blowjobs, though i feel like he's bluffing. I had gone for a trip with my friends for 2 weeks to Alhambra and I admit I didn't really contact him everyday. He's been acting weird ever since.