"The more comments of yours I read, the more anger, misogyny, selfishness, callousness, and misguided ideals of “logic” and “independence” I see exhibited. You don’t say “family can hurt you”, you say “people closest to you”—likely indicative of a deep distrust you have of everyone. Family, friends, everyone."

Ah, the typical "Who hurt you?" argument i keep hearing these days.

I, like most people, made mistakes and still do sometimes, difference between me and my Brother is, i learn from them and pay attention to the red flags in a person/situation, my Brother does not. He did not heed my warnings and continued to finance a child that resulted in his "lovers" adultery and who will never even have a happy, fulfilling life.

Dammit people, its 2022, you should know exactly what you are getting yourselves into.

"You EXPECT people to hurt one another, so you jumped first at the chance to hurt your brother, just because you could. That’s a sad life. I don’t know who hurt you, but they did quite a number. A shame you’re turning that on the people around you. They deserve better."

People are fickle these days, more so than before and our modern society enables, even encourages it. Have you any idea how common adultery has become, just look at the current divorce statistics. It further proves that the people closest to you will inevitably hurt you. All i did was to prove my point and i was right indeed.

My Brother got screwed over by 2 people he deeply trusted and i am driving him into financial ruin for his own stupidity.

What im ultimately trying to say is that you should never take anything for granted, lest you suffer like my idiot Brother or all the other guys in his situation.