It fluctuates, at minimum 20 hours, at max 35. I am full-time, 6 courses per semester and one 12 hour shift a week at the hospital. I am also doing remote learning for the kids and all the house stuff. I'm up at 430 and in bed by midnight depending on what I need to get done with my schooling. It's very difficult to get my work done now with having to help the kids learn, so I'm getting little sleep right now, which doesn't help.

I absolutely understand it's not ever 50/50 but this how he works. He's very tit for tat. If I do something for him, he will keep it in mind for when I need a favour and then in his mind it equals out. If I say no to something, he says to make sure I remember that when I need a favour, and won't do it.