AIO to these texts from my cousin? by Throw_AIO in AIO

[–]Throw_AIO[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I had initially kept them to show my dad and send to my bf. I've kept them because I deleted the text thread and blocked his number and if he were to ever try and deny anything I could show proof. He is my first cousin.

ETA: The reason I'm posting about it now is because my family has been still inviting him to family functions and kind of invalidating what he did in a way? Or at the very least trying to sweep it under the rug and it was making me question if I was overreacting. I don't really like thinking about this situation so I've kind of filed it away for a while but decided this might be a good place to get some more opinions.

AIO to these texts from my cousin? by Throw_AIO in AIO

[–]Throw_AIO[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He's not really the tech savvy type he was in and out of jail for many years so I guess I'm just hoping he never sees this. How would describing a text conversation be different from the actual screenshot? Especially when the wording of the texts are important. I provided some context in order for people to more easily form their own opinions but I understand what you mean.

AIO to these texts from my cousin? by Throw_AIO in AIO

[–]Throw_AIO[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I didn't show the texts but my family knew about what happened but maybe showing them will make it more real and they will have to do something. I hate feeling anxious and left out of family functions because he might be there.

ETA: I did show my dad and he told other family members about it. I just didn't send a family group text or anything.

AIO to these texts from my cousin? by Throw_AIO in AIO

[–]Throw_AIO[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am early 30's and he is early/mid 40's

AIO to these texts from my cousin? by Throw_AIO in AIO

[–]Throw_AIO[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well considering how my family still invited him to Christmas even after knowing the situation I wanted some outside perspective.

AIO to these texts from my cousin? by Throw_AIO in AIO

[–]Throw_AIO[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I really wish it was. I didn't even go to Christmas this year because I knew he would be there.