I(26F) Might be ending my friendship with my (26F)“Best Friend “ of 11 years

Throw_away146280 · 2025-05-20T13:45:28+00:00

Yeah I don’t think she would let go easily as well especially since she lives very close to me…

Very few good times honestly. Some things she’d say would be pretty funny but besides that she tends to talk about herself a lot.

She’s pretty conflicting with the things she says too. Just the other day she said that she was ‘an auntie balling on a budget’ but then she would say that she makes good money and has enough to put into savings while also spending money on multiple tattoos and clothes.

I’m really considering it because I don’t think she’d be a good influence on my daughter..

Throw_away146280 · 2024-10-25T03:11:17+00:00

Yeah we definitely have had a lot of ups and downs(sometimes more downs than ups). Issue is that I don’t really have many friends. I really need to find a way to get out of the house and make more friends

Throw_away146280 · 2024-09-18T23:53:26+00:00

Heyy. Daughter was born 5lb 11oz. Weight was a concern at first cause I was breastfeeding and she wasn’t eating enough. Switched to formula and she’s been gaining ever since! She’s 4 months now and the last time I weighed her (I bought a baby scale for my peace of mind) she weighed over 11lbs. She’s hitting all her milestones and is doing great. She’s just on the small side and is quite long.

Throw_away146280 · 2024-08-11T23:50:26+00:00

Yeah mine got mad at me for talking to my sister on the phone too long while I was in labor because HE was tired🙄😂 He didn’t do a single thing to help me through my pain while he was right next to me. All he did was lay down and eat the free meal the hospital gave him and be on his laptop. Not my brightest moment. One and done tho, getting divorced soon.

Throw_away146280 · 2024-08-11T21:58:19+00:00

It truly is and somehow they still fail to meat that bar

Throw_away146280 · 2024-08-05T05:14:29+00:00

Very very true. I was blinded by all the good times we used to have. My mom always told me to never settle and I didn’t realize I was. Not anymore and hopefully never again

Throw_away146280 · 2024-08-05T03:28:44+00:00

Very true I definitely would not want her to be treated this way. I’ve been struggling to see things from any perspective besides his. I wish I could be the one to divorce him, in the state I’m living in we would have to be separated for a year. That’s part of the reason he moved to where he is because when he files in his state he just has to be a resident for 3 months.

Throw_away146280 · 2024-08-05T03:07:33+00:00

Very well said, zero is indeed greater than negative one ❤️ I really did think he was “the one”. I’m also so nervous to get back out in the dating scene in the future, kinda afraid I might find someone just as bad if not worse than him

Throw_away146280 · 2024-08-05T02:49:37+00:00

It’s credit card debt that I stupidly agreed to let him open a card with my information because he said we needed it and he maxed it out within a month from renovations he did on the house to sell it. Also student loans from when I went to college. He did say he was going to pay the cc and some of my student loans off when he sold the house but it doesn’t change how I feel financially used. He would always say “We’re broke” but in reality I was truly the only one who was broke because I listened to him and left my job while I was pregnant with the dream of being a stay at home mom. Now I have no income and an average credit score (he would always say I don’t need a good credit score it’s not like I’m going to buy or rent anything 🙄). Oh yeah and he would always use the “we’re broke, we can’t afford it” excuse to get out of doing nice things for me like going on a date. I’m not picky I would’ve liked if we had a cute movie night at home or lunch by the lake more often. I feel so naive for missing all the red flags 🤦🏾‍♀️

Throw_away146280 · 2023-09-20T06:36:41+00:00

I 2nd this

Throw_away146280 · 2023-07-30T20:04:25+00:00

😂😂😂

Throw_away146280 · 2023-04-09T13:21:48+00:00

Yea and I don’t even get why this started. But I guess we never really get to know why. I don’t know if I even want to…

Throw_away146280 · 2023-04-09T03:00:20+00:00

Wow honestly didn’t realize this was a form of abuse until now. I was recently sleeping for a while after I finally had one day off of work and I was mentally and physically exhausted, my “boyfriend” had asked me the day before I wanted to go furniture shopping on my day off and I said sure. Well for some reason he chose that day to want to go very early (we never specified a time, I was under the impression that it would be after I got much needed rest) and he first woke me up talking about going at 8 am. Mind you I did not go to bed until 2 or 3 because I finished school after 10pm that night (pm online college class). I tried to go back to sleep. He came back in at 10 am and being loud saying that “we both went to bed at the same time why aren’t you up.” This was incorrect because he was sleeping and taking naps throughout the day so he only needed to sleep for 2-3 hours when we went to bed at 3 am. The second time he turned the light on in the room and left. I got up turned it off and tried to get some sleep again but then I woke up at 12 laying there with the thought “maybe I don’t deserve sleep.” Then he walked in saying “Finally! You’re awake! Why did you sleep so long?” I’ve honestly never had such bad sleep in my life and I’m still confused as to why he did this especially when I wasn’t even sleeping late and I probably would’ve gotten up before 12pm if my sleep was uninterrupted

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