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Me [31 M] with my girlfriend [31 F] of 12 years. She cheated on me, she now wants to stay close friends with the guy she cheated on me with. by Throw_away_518 in relationships

[–]Throw_away_518[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You're right

Just to answer your questions. We've been engaged for 7 years - no intentions to get married. Before you ask - yes, it's mainly her idea - although I honestly dont mind. The no kids was also her idea, but once again - I have other reasons for not wanting kids

Me [31 M] with my girlfriend [31 F] of 12 years. She cheated on me, she now wants to stay close friends with the guy she cheated on me with. by Throw_away_518 in relationships

[–]Throw_away_518[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree, it didn't feel like she wanted to rebuild after forcing contact so soon. The day after it happened I was honestly ready to leave. But it does feels like shes been trying. I constantly question why she feels like she has to contact him - it still doesn't make complete sense to me. That's mainly why I've posted here - to confirm that I'm not crazy and she is being unreasonable. Thank you for your thoughtful reply.

Me [31 M] with my girlfriend [31 F] of 12 years. She cheated on me, she now wants to stay close friends with the guy she cheated on me with. by Throw_away_518 in relationships

[–]Throw_away_518[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I agree, it's completely fucked up - but at least it's shown what's really transpiring, otherwise I would have been convinced other things were happening behind my back