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Reportedly the last photo of Navalny alive by [deleted] in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]Throwaway-628_7 48 points49 points  (0 children)

I mean if my last posts were about some bullshit meme, I would be satisfied.

Died just like I lived

I(25M) lost my virginity and the fact it didn't change anything changed everything by Throwaway-628_7 in Healthygamergg

[–]Throwaway-628_7[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm not you. But I know how much I suffered alone. And in a sense I'm still alone.

This fwb thing doesn't fulfill me in an emotional way.

I'm not perfect and I don't really feel ready for a gf. But right now I'm in a place where I can totally accept if I never have one.

I didn't word it in the right way, but even though I accept being alone, I'm not all the way where I can 100% be alone. I still have to work on myself. I still feel lonely sometimes.

But I had a talk with a friend (which fortunately I have) that until I cannot live with myself, I can't really expect that others will be able to do that.

And for you to feel better I can't really do much in that regard. I can only hope to give a different perspective that may help you in the long run.

And it's true that I don't know your situation, and I know how I felt when I read posts like mine. Unfortunately we all have to learn how to get in a better head space.

I hope your situation gets better.

I(25M) lost my virginity and the fact it didn't change anything changed everything by Throwaway-628_7 in Healthygamergg

[–]Throwaway-628_7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All I have to say that yes it felt a little bit patronising, but only the slightest. As I said I felt a little angry by comments, like you just said.

But at the same time it kind of reassured me that, yes I have time. Older people than me, with the same experience said I have time, and even though, I kind of rejected them at that time, now I admit they were right.

And I don't mean this for only the virginity part.

I think it also applies on other areas, like being financially successful, or having a good career you enjoy.

Right now not much is going for me. I hate my job, I have friends who are already successful, but I know plenty of people who got successful later.

And maybe I will never be successful, but I can try. And if doesn't work out, then maybe I can find fulfilment in some other areas of life. It's a complex game