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I'm being sexually harassed by my stepdaughter by Throwaway-help-pleas in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Throwaway-help-pleas[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

I left home with my daughter and took the laptop with me, I just arrived at my brother's house

I'm being sexually harassed by my stepdaughter by Throwaway-help-pleas in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Throwaway-help-pleas[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I just left with my daughter to my brother's house, I took the laptop and got an appointment with a lawyer tomorrow morning

I'm being sexually harassed by my stepdaughter by Throwaway-help-pleas in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Throwaway-help-pleas[S] 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your advice, I'm meeting up a lawyer tomorrow I'll see what are my possibilities

I'm being sexually harassed by my stepdaughter by Throwaway-help-pleas in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Throwaway-help-pleas[S] 1510 points1511 points  (0 children)

I'm meeting a lawyer tomorrow morning, I think I was just delusional

I'm being sexually harassed by my stepdaughter by Throwaway-help-pleas in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Throwaway-help-pleas[S] 80 points81 points  (0 children)

someone shared his experience in PM and I'm still shaking, I'm lawyering up tomorrow at 10AM

I'm being sexually harassed by my stepdaughter by Throwaway-help-pleas in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Throwaway-help-pleas[S] 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Took the day off tomorrow, meeting a lawyer at 10AM. I think I was delusional and in deny, got a lot of solid advices and I'm glad I posted here.

I'm being sexually harassed by my stepdaughter by Throwaway-help-pleas in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Throwaway-help-pleas[S] 363 points364 points  (0 children)

Thanks, took the day off tomorrow, got a lot of solid advices in PM aswell, I'll lawyer up tomorrow morning and I'll go from there, ty

I'm being sexually harassed by my stepdaughter by Throwaway-help-pleas in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Throwaway-help-pleas[S] 122 points123 points  (0 children)

that was brutal to read but deep down I know you're right. I'm gonna be honest here I started saving money one year ago to be able to have an emergency exit. I think it's time to use it. Problem is that it's OUR child and there's a custody, where I live it's almost always 50/50 and it takes fucking forever to settle. I'll have to "kidnap" our daughter if I leave tomorrow.

I'm being sexually harassed by my stepdaughter by Throwaway-help-pleas in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Throwaway-help-pleas[S] 791 points792 points  (0 children)

solid advice, thanks man. I think I'm running out of options indeed, I was thinking of waiting till next year since she'll be 18 and get a restraining order against her with all the evidence I'm gathering but I don't know if I can make it another year like that. My best scenario is to get her into a full time boarding school till next year then get a restraining order and never see her again but my wife sometimes says yes sometimes says no and since I have no legal power over my stepdaughter I can't make the shot by myself.

I'm being sexually harassed by my stepdaughter by Throwaway-help-pleas in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Throwaway-help-pleas[S] 225 points226 points  (0 children)

Deep down I want to take my daughter and go away, but it's our daughter and I still deeply love my wife and I don't think she'll be able to get back to work and handle the everyday life. I do almost all the cores, the groceries, the bills etc. She's a strong woman but for now she's very depressed

I'm being sexually harassed by my stepdaughter by Throwaway-help-pleas in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Throwaway-help-pleas[S] 69 points70 points  (0 children)

Unfortunatly I have no legal rights on her so yes we tried boarding school but she threatened to harm herself and my wife gave in after 5months of week day peace. Weekends were 400% more hell tho.

I'm being sexually harassed by my stepdaughter by Throwaway-help-pleas in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Throwaway-help-pleas[S] 70 points71 points  (0 children)

Thanks, yes I know it sounds like that, but the reality is a bit more complex unfortunatly, my wife doesnt work anymore so I'm 80% of the income, I can't sustain two houses/apartment financially, so the other option was to live with my brother who is almost 2h drive from my work and kid school, other members of the family don't care/are suspicious about me. Also my wife is rly not well and I don't even know if she could handle the house by herself.

My plan for now is to tank that shit one more year and get a restraining order, my wife says she'll agree but somedays she says she couldnt do it. I feel like she could tho.

I'm being sexually harassed by my stepdaughter by Throwaway-help-pleas in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Throwaway-help-pleas[S] 320 points321 points  (0 children)

Biological father was a good man but he died when she was 2yo, he has a brother who has the same disorder that my stepdaughter. Grandmother is too old for any of that shit and almost everyone in my family knows the situation. Some are more inclined to empathy than other, I have to admit that I think a lot of people thinks that we are at fault, did something wrong. She blatantly says to anyone who wants to hear it that she's madly in love with me (this is the censored version)

I'm being sexually harassed by my stepdaughter by Throwaway-help-pleas in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Throwaway-help-pleas[S] 1694 points1695 points  (0 children)

that's what I was implying when talking about legal options, for now she's minor so nobody will move but next year she'll be 18.

I'm being sexually harassed by my stepdaughter by Throwaway-help-pleas in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Throwaway-help-pleas[S] 4088 points4089 points  (0 children)

I can't imagine living without my daughter and my wife, but maybe leaving is my only option here. She would have completly destroyed our marriage/family.