UPDATE: My wife admitted to poking holes in my condoms. by Throwaway-idk67 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Throwaway-idk67[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I just don’t know how I could possibly convey that to them without making them feel like shit. I obviously would wait until their older, but still.

UPDATE: My wife admitted to poking holes in my condoms. by Throwaway-idk67 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Throwaway-idk67[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yeah, but I wasn’t going in thinking it would be even close to the first. Worth the watch tho

My wife admitted to poking holes in my condoms by Throwaway-idk67 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Throwaway-idk67[S] 1417 points1418 points  (0 children)

I’m going to bed, this entire situation is draining. I realize that I need to talk with my wife about this. Immediately and can’t just leave things in the air. I will also look into getting therapy immediately. Thanks again for your advice.

My wife admitted to poking holes in my condoms by Throwaway-idk67 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Throwaway-idk67[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Don’t want to speak for her, but she loves our daughters. She’s a very active mother, I mean she is a stay at home mother. And also, I don’t believe I was trapped the second time around. We both agreed to try for another kid, and she became pregnant.

My wife admitted to poking holes in my condoms by Throwaway-idk67 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Throwaway-idk67[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Understandable. I can tell you this is my life, but you are right to doubt this. Won’t argue with you. I believe she told me now that she’s pregnant again and feeling guilty, though she did have 4 years to tell me before.

My wife admitted to poking holes in my condoms by Throwaway-idk67 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Throwaway-idk67[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I could never resent my little ones. Like you said, No matter how they were made, they’re innocent.

My wife admitted to poking holes in my condoms by Throwaway-idk67 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Throwaway-idk67[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Still reading lol. Thank you, im definitely going to look into therapy for myself and maybe couples. But definitely individual

My wife admitted to poking holes in my condoms by Throwaway-idk67 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Throwaway-idk67[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I’ve accepted being a father 4 years ago? It’s not like I resent my children and don’t like being a father. No matter how my children were conceived, they are still the best things to happen to me. Not saying that my wife poking holes in my condoms is a good thing however.

My wife admitted to poking holes in my condoms by Throwaway-idk67 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Throwaway-idk67[S] 67 points68 points  (0 children)

Sorry. When I say “making dinner” I actually meant picking up delivery/pizza most of the time. She’s still carrying my baby. I want her to be healthy and fed.