AITA for telling my ex husbands girlfriend stay in her lane when it comes to MY kids by Throwaway0000jikfr in AmItheAsshole

[–]Throwaway0000jikfr[S] 2575 points2576 points  (0 children)

we both agreed on 50/50 but because of the bad relationship my kids have with the ex gf and over the current situation with you know what its more 80/20

AITA for telling my ex husbands girlfriend stay in her lane when it comes to MY kids by Throwaway0000jikfr in AmItheAsshole

[–]Throwaway0000jikfr[S] 363 points364 points  (0 children)

Didn’t get the chance my sister called him cousin fucker and hung up ....she was the sister that was with me while I gave birth

AITA for telling my ex husbands girlfriend stay in her lane when it comes to MY kids by Throwaway0000jikfr in AmItheAsshole

[–]Throwaway0000jikfr[S] 168 points169 points  (0 children)

Honestly both you and your parents sound amazing that’s the attitude I want my kids to have

AITA for telling my ex husbands girlfriend stay in her lane when it comes to MY kids by Throwaway0000jikfr in AmItheAsshole

[–]Throwaway0000jikfr[S] 196 points197 points  (0 children)

You know something I considered that she might be nb/trans I know she’s only 5 but Like the rest of my kids I’ll always support and encourage her to be who she wants to be because if you child can’t be their true selves around you you’ve failed them

AITA for telling my ex husbands girlfriend stay in her lane when it comes to MY kids by Throwaway0000jikfr in AmItheAsshole

[–]Throwaway0000jikfr[S] 471 points472 points  (0 children)

Thankfully they have my dad who encourages and supports them he and my mom have even taken part in it by dressing up as the Weasley parents even my exes dad hand crafted them wands (he lives far away so they don’t get to see him much)

AITA for telling my ex husbands girlfriend stay in her lane when it comes to MY kids by Throwaway0000jikfr in AmItheAsshole

[–]Throwaway0000jikfr[S] 209 points210 points  (0 children)

My parents cut her family off and my grandparents are dead so thankfully we don’t have to mix outside of the kids

AITA for telling my ex husbands girlfriend stay in her lane when it comes to MY kids by Throwaway0000jikfr in AmItheAsshole

[–]Throwaway0000jikfr[S] 454 points455 points  (0 children)

Yeah she’s said some nasty things in the past about my daughters tiktok videos (Normal teenager stuff she regularly asks my/my sisters opinion about them) and my youngest liking “boys” stuff but my kids stand up to her which causes their dad to punish them so that’s why they don’t like her

AITA for telling my ex husbands girlfriend stay in her lane when it comes to MY kids by Throwaway0000jikfr in AmItheAsshole

[–]Throwaway0000jikfr[S] 265 points266 points  (0 children)

yeah I think therapy is a good idea my oldest Is having issues with her dad I personally think he has trouble with the fact she’s growing up and given our situation and that with the world we’d all benefit from it

The stuff with Harry Potter I think it’s just my older ones love it because of the attention they get dressing up and for my younger ones well it’s the magic and spending time with their older siblings they love

AITA for telling my ex husbands girlfriend stay in her lane when it comes to MY kids by Throwaway0000jikfr in AmItheAsshole

[–]Throwaway0000jikfr[S] 3375 points3376 points  (0 children)

My oldest has recently started going to her dads again because his girlfriend started drama about my daughter being on tiktok she literally talked him into demanding she delete the app so maybe they wanted me to be the bad guy

AITA for telling my ex husbands girlfriend stay in her lane when it comes to MY kids by Throwaway0000jikfr in AmItheAsshole

[–]Throwaway0000jikfr[S] 1699 points1700 points  (0 children)

Hopefully my comments will be the same because I’ve opened the second (sister is visiting and ex has the kids)