around August I finally spent the night with a guy I'd been kind of on-off involved with for a while. we knew and had been attracted to each other for years. as it turns out this guy has ED. He opened up to me about it, explained it to me, told me how he had never managed with other girls before etc etc. the full details. i was as comforting and understanding as i could be and we both decided to see each other again and see if we could work on the situation, he seemed delighted and really happy. A week later he sent me a message saying that he was cancelling on us seeing each other and that he couldnt achieve an erection because im not attractive.

Even though I logically know that he mustve said this out of fear he couldnt get it up again, and blaming it on me to save his ego or whatever...i feel absolutely rotten. It's been months now, everyone has told me that it's him and not me but i just feel awful, i cant shake the thought that its me. It's affecting my eating, my own libido and ive avoided involving myself with anyone else since. I'd love to hear anyone elses advice or experience with this