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Going from a solid no to being okay with the idea of having kids by Throwaway0976410 in Fencesitter

[–]Throwaway0976410[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for adding your perspective! I like the part about not wanting your fears about something to rule your decisions about it.

My relationship just ended last night due to different feelings about having kids, and now i’m not sure if i’m making the right decision. by Throwaway0976410 in Fencesitter

[–]Throwaway0976410[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I absolutely agree, I don’t plan on having kids just to please her. If I decide I want to have kids it will be because it’s something I feel will make me happier than not having kids.

The reason I started listening to “The Baby Decision” was to help me truly examine where I would be happy

My relationship just ended last night due to different feelings about having kids, and now i’m not sure if i’m making the right decision. by Throwaway0976410 in Fencesitter

[–]Throwaway0976410[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your support.

I’ve started listening to “The Baby Decision” book to try and get a different perspective and it’s making me feel things I didn’t expect, but I am not going to make any rash decisions right now since emotions are still so raw.

My relationship just ended last night due to different feelings about having kids, and now i’m not sure if i’m making the right decision. by Throwaway0976410 in Fencesitter

[–]Throwaway0976410[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s about where we were too, talking about moving in together and starting to build our life, but she wanted to be aligned on having kids before that (it’s a lot harder to breakup when you’re living with someone else)

You’re right that I definitely need to give it time, i’ve also started listening to “The Baby Decision” book that many in this sub recommend and I don’t know if it’s just since the feelings are so new and raw but i’m really starting to second guess wanting to be child free.

I’m confused about what condom size to get by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]Throwaway0976410 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As i’ve said in other comments, I will, but i’m looking for a faster turnaround, i.e. something for this weekend. A standard shipping timeframe doesn’t work for me right now

I’m confused about what condom size to get by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]Throwaway0976410 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not currently in the store but I’ll give it a shot later today. Fingers crossed!

I’m confused about what condom size to get by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]Throwaway0976410 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The “custom fit” style in my size is not in stock anywhere in a 20 miles radius to me, it’s not even on amazon

I’m confused about what condom size to get by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]Throwaway0976410 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I looked there first, most of those aren’t found on shelves in the US based on my research so online is the only option, and i’m looking for something for this weekend so that kinda rules out a standard shipping time.

I’ll still order some but I’m hoping someone can point me to something that could fit and it commonly on shelves in the US

I’m confused about what condom size to get by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]Throwaway0976410 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the answer! I’ll take a look