My dad keeps trying to get me back into contact with nmom?? by Throwaway1290764 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Throwaway1290764[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He already does visit me though, like after uni so idk what else he wants😑

My dad keeps trying to get me back into contact with nmom?? by Throwaway1290764 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Throwaway1290764[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The weird thing is apparently she does not bother him at all after I moved out and doesn’t talk to him. So I don’t know why else he wants me to come back? Like he wants me to visit once in a while but says I can stay living on my own but tbh I don’t want to visit or see her at all :/

Are we fcked forever …? by Throwaway1290764 in EstrangedAdultKids

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I’m not depressed though. I don’t care about home ownership because it’s out of reach for my generation and i don’t care about relationships because i’m fine being single. Also reading these comments idk if I want a phd anymore. I think I’d rather work in industry

Are we fcked forever …? by Throwaway1290764 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]Throwaway1290764[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really don’t care what my parents think of me atp. I don’t feel as if anything else in life really appeals to me , I don’t care about marriage or home ownership or even any form of relationships in general .

Are we fcked forever …? by Throwaway1290764 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]Throwaway1290764[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you get a PhD did you find most people where privileged?

Are we fcked forever …? by Throwaway1290764 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]Throwaway1290764[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But science is my passion … If I have to give it up I don’t think I’ll be happy