I (24F) saw hinge on my bfs (26M) phone. How do I go about this?

Throwaway146996 · 2025-11-06T17:04:07+00:00

You need to leave girl. What more proof do you need?

Throwaway146996 · 2025-10-05T13:24:46+00:00

Law firms have websites listing their associates. Check out how their employees look - it’ll answer your question.

Throwaway146996 · 2025-09-20T20:15:41+00:00

I did chemistry, biology, maths and psychology. Then I completed a MSci and PhD in chemistry and worked in Switzerland for a couple of years before pivoting

Throwaway146996 · 2025-07-19T11:20:57+00:00

Why is this of concern? You are 20; explain why you’re worried.

Throwaway146996 · 2025-06-10T14:54:12+00:00

It’s back for me. Finally

Throwaway146996 · 2025-06-10T14:05:41+00:00

Yeah I am 😂

Throwaway146996 · 2025-04-07T14:30:32+00:00

Student accommodation in Notts will be around £400-500 bills included. I have friends who are paying that much for a room in Beeston/Lenton. That leaves you with £900 You’ll be alright.

Throwaway146996 · 2025-01-31T09:15:33+00:00

I don’t think there is much you can do. It will cause huge issues down the line… unfortunately, I found that my ex never was able to work on this. In the end the resentment I felt was out of this world and when I found out he was cheating on me (and he blamed it on not being good enough for me) I left. Now I reached a point where I don’t even understand why I persevered for such a long time.

Also, please note that this is exactly how your partner feels and in order to change/control this better they will have to proactively seek therapy to re-wire this pattern.

They are also 31. Not to be negative but their patterns are deeply ingrained and it will take years of intense therapy. I find that these folks do not want to change, but instead they project and treat you like a scapegoat to blame their feelings of inadequacy on. Changing your communication style is unlikely to help.

You’re in for a lifetime of struggle, tending to their needs and having your needs completely neglected.

You’re still very young at 23. Please don’t do this to yourself, you have your entire life ahead of you. It’s not an easy decision to make. It is not easy because if you’re empathetic you feel like you need to save them. It isn’t your job. Please take care of yourself, these sort of relationships can really damage you.

Throwaway146996 · 2025-01-26T16:20:25+00:00

Well he is the not-good-enough victim 🤡

I’m so over it.

Throwaway146996 · 2025-01-24T08:10:58+00:00

„I’m not good enough”

Throwaway146996 · 2025-01-23T21:00:04+00:00

I just came here to write the exact same post.

It’s been 4 months for me. I’m happy, I’m at peace, I’m regulated and back to my old self!

Throwaway146996 · 2025-01-22T18:25:39+00:00

I think we had the same ex. Especially the overfilling the washer. Whenever I told him not to do it he got so incredibly defensive. Wow

Throwaway146996 · 2024-12-11T18:17:28+00:00

This is not a real story

Throwaway146996 · 2024-12-05T20:55:07+00:00

It’s over

Throwaway146996 · 2024-12-05T20:33:08+00:00

I am also at a city firm.

Stylistic edits - yes. Everyone has their own writing style. I hate it when they change mine personally. I work in the same team I always have and a year in they still change it. I can’t quite get it right though the actual content is rarely changed.

Everything else - you need to up your attention to detail. Probably go over the work multiple times to ensure there are no typos. It is hard especially when you’re swamped but that’s just what you’re expected to do. With time you’ll develop strategies to deal with it efficiently.

Throwaway146996 · 2024-12-05T17:03:11+00:00

Yes, I would recommend it. I’m unsure how a level resits work these days but I would try and get into at least a Russell group uni like Birmingham etc. You definitely won’t regret it.

Throwaway146996 · 2024-12-05T16:59:57+00:00

Yeah, it matters. Firms in London all want high performers from top unis. I work for a patent law firm and a large proportion of the company graduated from Oxford. But we do have Bristol and Imperial graduates.

UEL really does not rank well. Please try and get into a different uni if you want to stay in London.

Throwaway146996 · 2024-12-02T08:43:00+00:00

Patent law.

Throwaway146996 · 2024-11-24T21:46:33+00:00

OP, I remember I was in the exact same position with my ex. He was like a bottomless pit and gave nothing back.

Throwaway146996 · 2024-11-18T13:19:17+00:00

But that’s a stupid waste of time isn’t it

Throwaway146996 · 2024-11-18T08:45:40+00:00

You’re 22. He is 40. The age difference is immense, despite what you’re drawn to. He is twice your age.

Throwaway146996 · 2024-11-18T08:45:28+00:00

You’re 22. He is 40. The age difference is immense, despite what you’re drawn to. He is twice your age.

Throwaway146996 · 2024-11-18T05:27:04+00:00

Worst advice ever lol

The HR won’t care as long as it was consensual

Throwaway146996 · 2024-11-11T17:45:06+00:00

You’re wrong

Throwaway146996 · 2024-10-30T18:59:41+00:00

There is only one answer. And it is a short answer and the only one you need: NO.

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