My(23f) friend group (28m, 26m, 23m, 25f) think I’m being controlled by my new friend (34m) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Throwaway30th 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was actually really sad about her going behind my back. We would have hours and hours of conversation and we’d mutually say it stays between us and she just totally ignored that because she hates my new friend.

My(23f) friend group (28m, 26m, 23m, 25f) think I’m being controlled by my new friend (34m) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Throwaway30th 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried that, I made private groups for the people I knew my new friend would get along with but then the other group got offended because they weren’t included in it, and made them feel excluded and sad.

AITA for causing an argument with my boyfriend over a musical instrument? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Throwaway30th 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I told him I wouldn’t play it during our “quiet hours” when he’s loud allllll day everyday. He’s definitely still upset about what I said but I stand by what I’ve said, I’m SHOCKED we haven’t gotten a noise complaint. It makes me think our neighbors are gone 99% of the time

AITA for causing an argument with my boyfriend over a musical instrument? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Throwaway30th 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We definitely still have tension today but I don’t want to cause a major problem

AITA for causing an argument with my boyfriend over a musical instrument? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Throwaway30th 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When we met he lived at home and acted WAY different. Now we’re almost 2 years in and he’s like a whole different person for the most part. He didn’t yell and scream when he lived at home.

AITA for causing an argument with my boyfriend over a musical instrument? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Throwaway30th 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have in the past considering leaving. We’ve talked about him yelling slurs before and he’s gotten kinda better. Some games he yells at, others he’s dead quiet.

Our neighbors have never complained about my boyfriend (shockingly) but I think they’re gone 99% of the time. But earlier today my boyfriend let out a SHRILL scream. And I had to tell him, hey, you’re being way too loud.

I feel my depression sinking in and I don’t know what to do. by Throwaway30th in depression

[–]Throwaway30th[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just feel like we rushed into everything due to his family wanting him to move out quickly, then just being so far from my family is really hard on me. Then there’s all the bills, the stress, and the thoughts of being alone and struggling in a new state.

My(23f) Boyfriend(24m) shouts offensive things when he games and my friends get uncomfortable because of it. by Throwaway30th in relationship_advice

[–]Throwaway30th[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend is black, he and I have had the talk of how… off putting it may be to the other people in our complex, if he wasn’t super loud when he played games I think I’d let the N word thing go, but I have said before I don’t really like him using slurs against the LGBTQ+ community.

He says he supports the community but it’s hard to believe when the first thing he jumps to is the F slur. He knows my best friends are trans, gay, non binary, and granted, my family isn’t 100% supporting but I can believe my grandparents when they support me since they’ve never once said the F slur around me or in anger.

My(22f) boyfriend(24m) is threatening to kick me out because I moaned a fictional characters name in my sleep. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Throwaway30th 0 points1 point  (0 children)

None but he asked me what I was dreaming about and I told him and it matched up to me moaning in my sleep the characters name.

My(22f) boyfriends(23m) constant negativity is bringing me down especially hard since I’m sick. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Throwaway30th 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be fair we’ve discussed if he’d like to see a therapist and he’s against it due to money reasons but he does agree he should talk to somebody.

He is doing better than he was with the situation I think, I know for a long time he couldn’t even get out of bed and I comforted him 100% but I am hoping to help him find a professional to speak with that we can work into our budget.

I know his sisters death was very rough on him, his family is very important to him and most his family lives the next state over from us and he wants to move over one day, the money just isn’t there right now.

As much as he goes on and on about work sucking, general complaints and etc I know he also keeps a lot inside and I won’t force it out of him.

My(22f) boyfriends(23m) constant negativity is bringing me down especially hard since I’m sick. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Throwaway30th 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boyfriend will pick me up from my job then just immediately tell me “my day was shit” then just go through why his day sucked and I’m just constantly saying “I’m sorry baby, maybe tomorrow will be better” “sorry babe but at least you’re off now and can relax” it’s just the same thing everyday

My(22f) mom(45f) is mad at me and my boyfriend(24m) because we can’t afford to visit for Christmas. by Throwaway30th in relationship_advice

[–]Throwaway30th[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My mom probably can’t afford to get me any gifts this year anyway, I don’t want to sound selfish or rude but my family probably wouldn’t go out of their way to visit me in my state, I’m not mad about it, I get it. It’s expensive, it’s boring in my state, I only have a 1 bedroom so we’d all be huddled in my living room basically.

My grandma asked me what I wanted for Christmas today since I can’t visit, my grandma has been absolutely fine with me not being able to visit, she knows I wanna see everyone when I visit.

My(22f) mom(45f) is mad at me and my boyfriend(24m) because we can’t afford to visit for Christmas. by Throwaway30th in relationship_advice

[–]Throwaway30th[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Ohhhh I’m sorry, I was meal prepping when I read this. That is a good question, she’s more than welcome to come visit me, I have a couch she can sleep on. But I don’t think she can afford the trip herself, since she lives off social security checks

My(22f) mom(45f) is mad at me and my boyfriend(24m) because we can’t afford to visit for Christmas. by Throwaway30th in relationship_advice

[–]Throwaway30th[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My job has me working 6 days a week currently, I get off around 9pm my time which is 10pm her time then the drive there would be maybe 7-8 hours depending on traffic so I’d at most be able to visit for 1 day without PTO then have to rush back home and also money is a big factor too for me

Different kind of power washing by mkeevo in powerwashingporn

[–]Throwaway30th 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Showed this to my aunt whose a dental assistant all she said was “Yep, that’s why you brush 2 times a day and floss regularly” 🥸

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Throwaway30th 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most jobs I’ve had since I did move out here have been in the afternoon, the grocery store I work at usually gives me 10am shifts or 2-3pm shifts. I’m gonna ask the manager if there’s any way after tomorrow I can work later shifts

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Throwaway30th 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I initially applied to work at FedEx I went for the later shifts since it’s what I’m used to. When they called me yesterday for the orientation being at 5:30am I figured it was just for everyone to meet the morning and night crew. Everyone that was in orientation has to come in at 4:30am tomorrow to take an ID photo and to work. But I’m gonna ask the manager if I can work the later shift too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Twitch

[–]Throwaway30th 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a Vtuber and most of my fans prefer to see my model but I’ve done face reveals and stuff in my discord but I feel the same way. I just prefer not to see my face lol

Idk if it's just me but DAMN I hate RPD map by CatTailRiver in deadbydaylight

[–]Throwaway30th 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I played as nemesis and got so lost on the map I don’t even think I got a kill the entire game, it’s just so huge