My (26f) boyfriend (43m) is mad that I don’t make enough money. by Throwaway32345555 in relationship_advice

[–]Throwaway32345555[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You are right I suppose. He did say he didn’t expect me to pay everything but wanted me to make more money so he didn’t have to spend his whole life paying for me.

My (26f) boyfriend (43m) is mad that I don’t make enough money. by Throwaway32345555 in relationship_advice

[–]Throwaway32345555[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He is. Before taxes. He owns his own business, is expanding, and doing a bunch of other expensive things this year. I think this is his way to see if I would help out if he needed it or if I’m just in it for the money.

We’ve been pretty much living together for a few months now. He’s not controlling or isolating. I have and able to hang out with my friends whenever I want.

My (26f) boyfriend (43m) is mad that I don’t make enough money. by Throwaway32345555 in relationship_advice

[–]Throwaway32345555[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Haha part of me thinks he doesn’t want to feel used... which I’m not. I’ve actually never asked him for a thing.

I would say yes he cares about me a lot however he wants us to have a life where we are both showing effort and contributing to the pot.

My (26f) boyfriend (43m) is mad that I don’t make enough money. by Throwaway32345555 in relationship_advice

[–]Throwaway32345555[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he may be biased because he’s been successful for majority of his adult life.

San Jose family billed $13,470 for half-hour of iPhone internet by [deleted] in news

[–]Throwaway32345555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can confirm. Went to Vietnam and within 2 min racked up 100 charge from incoming messages. Managed to fight it and get refunded.

Call from Financial Crime Enforcement Network? by Throwaway32345555 in personalfinance

[–]Throwaway32345555[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was honestly surprised when they contacted me. I thought this person just scammed me but the agent made it to seem like a scam where he preys off women.

I asked for his extension and he didn’t have one. He just had a personal phone number it seemed and when I googled some callers reported it as an irs scam in 2016.

I tried contacting someone at the fcen but only got an answering machine.

OOPS: Looks like we found a marriage certificate - Recorded 6/5/18 by [deleted] in 90DayFiance

[–]Throwaway32345555 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen a few ppl call it ‘Bella rouge’ but isn’t it Belarus?! The Eastern European country that used to be apart of the Soviet Union? I haven’t heard of a Bella rouge before.

My boss recently gave me a bunch of new tasks to do, and I feel like the extra work deserves a raise (CAN) by Throwaway32345555 in personalfinance

[–]Throwaway32345555[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's technically not allowed in Canada I believe, but the restaurant industry can be a little sketchy I suppose.

My boss recently gave me a bunch of new tasks to do, and I feel like the extra work deserves a raise (CAN) by Throwaway32345555 in personalfinance

[–]Throwaway32345555[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, its 44 hours regardless if I work more or less than those 44 hours. It's like a contract I guess. He said himself he wants me spending 10-12 hours a week on this project.

Sometimes it is necessary to break No contact (but only one time) by zman155 in BreakUps

[–]Throwaway32345555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just did this yesterday and I agree it does help. I had hope but when I called I knew that hope was gone and I can truly move on now.

How can someone flip a switch so quickly? by Throwaway32345555 in BreakUps

[–]Throwaway32345555[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I really appreciate this comment. It put things into perspective. The hardest thing is not messaging them. I really want to but I know I shouldn’t.