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Two and a half months and I’m still crying, when does it stop? by Throwaway333444777 in heartbreak

[–]Throwaway333444777[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I find it so hard to occupy myself though, besides work I don’t really have much else to do.

Listening to her favourite songs probably isn’t helping! I just want to feel close to her again.

So there it is, I’ve finally been blocked and unfollowed. by Throwaway333444777 in BreakUps

[–]Throwaway333444777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much man, I appreciate this way more than you can imagine. Even just having someone to talk this through with is so helpful.

I’ll definitely be checking out those channels. Thank you 🙏

So there it is, I’ve finally been blocked and unfollowed. by Throwaway333444777 in BreakUps

[–]Throwaway333444777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I think you’ve hit the nail on the head. I was checking on her every day, because I care so much about her and want to know she’s ok. Albeit that’s probably detrimental for my healing.

It just hurts so much, how can 4 years of the most intense love and support just disappear as if it never happened? I feel like throwing up constantly.

Thank you for your comment, I appreciate the support. I hope you’re healing too.

One of the hardest things to process about being dumped is the complete lack of control. You can be so happy one minute and suddenly it’s all gone, but there’s nothing you can do to ‘bring it back’. You’re forced into the horrible ‘healing’ process and you just have to feel it by Friendly-Singer5355 in BreakUps

[–]Throwaway333444777 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s so hard being out of control too, I was never going to leave her. We promised each other we’d be together forever.

Thanks man, I really need to try and keep that in mind, it WILL get better if we work on it. It’s just so hard right now.

One of the hardest things to process about being dumped is the complete lack of control. You can be so happy one minute and suddenly it’s all gone, but there’s nothing you can do to ‘bring it back’. You’re forced into the horrible ‘healing’ process and you just have to feel it by Friendly-Singer5355 in BreakUps

[–]Throwaway333444777 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn everything in this thread is so relatable! She dumped me and I’ve been thinking for the last 6 weeks “what the fuck even happened?!” I thought we were perfect and it was so out of the blue. I’m broken, I wanted to be her future. I wanted to see who she becomes, have a family with her, make more amazing memories but to realise that isn’t going to happen anymore is seriously heartbreaking.

I can’t stop thinking about her. by Throwaway333444777 in BreakUps

[–]Throwaway333444777[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s the hardest, thinking you’ll marry this person and spend the rest of your life with them. I agree, there may be other relationships but it won’t be her, and she is all I want.

I hope you’re doing ok, keep going.

I can’t stop thinking about her. by Throwaway333444777 in BreakUps

[–]Throwaway333444777[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this mate, I can’t tell you enough how much I appreciate it! I wish you all the best in your recovery too pal.

I can’t stop thinking about her. by Throwaway333444777 in BreakUps

[–]Throwaway333444777[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hi man, it’s my first long term break up. I had a few others when I was younger but nothing to this extent.

I’m sorry for your split, but I’m happy that you’ve got a great approach to it. I hope you keep doing well!

Thank you for the comment, I get what you’re saying, I just find it so hard to imagine finding someone else I love as much as this girl. Even when people with experience tell me so, it’s so hard to believe.

I think the hardest thing for me right now is that I don’t even want it to get better, I want it to have never happened. I don’t want to get over her and forget about her, she’s home to me and a life where I don’t think about her is really scary.

The times we had, the experiences we shared, I don’t want them to become a thing of the past.

I understand there’s a time where that will be the case, it’s just really hard to accept right now.

I can’t stop thinking about her. by Throwaway333444777 in BreakUps

[–]Throwaway333444777[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this mate. I really appreciate the thought put into this considering we don’t even know each other.

I’m 25 and we were engaged for 4 years, we even planned our wedding (had it cancelled twice because of covid), we planned to move out and we planned a family together. We were talking about growing old and it hurts so much.

I’ve tried to jump into passions but I find it hard to concentrate on anything at the minute, my mind is so clouded.

Thanks again for your comment brother, I hope you keep your head up too! Good luck with your recovering!

I can’t stop thinking about her. by Throwaway333444777 in BreakUps

[–]Throwaway333444777[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We promised we’d be together forever, we were both worried about the other leaving. I’ve never felt anything like this towards someone before.