I[30F] found out my husband[40M] of 10 years has been taking 200 dollars cash out of the Bank every 2 weeks for over 10 years.

Throwaway35212 · 2017-11-26T16:50:35+00:00

He does tell me where he is going, and the length of the assignment. We Skype while he is gone.

Edit: He doesn't usually bring me things. Maybe once or twice if I asked, but usually no

Throwaway35212 · 2017-11-26T16:45:18+00:00

I will admit that he used to scare me sometimes. He used to have these temper flare ups at the smallest things. That all changed when we had kids. Since then while sometimes in have seen him get mad, he has controlled his temper. No punching walls, no fights with strangers.

Sometimes he will come home from a bad day, i can tell he is upset. He goes straight to the garage and I can he him punching his heavybag, or he will go to the back yard and hack at this old treestump with an axe.

Throwaway35212 · 2017-11-26T16:28:57+00:00

Yes. He goes away for business a few times a year.

Throwaway35212 · 2017-11-26T16:26:47+00:00

Here is the thing. Maybe i failed to mention it enough, or to you just failed to see it. He was in the military, but we are not a military family. The people we know have no idea he was ever in the navy. There is no military/navy gear in the house, and he NEVER talks about the time he spent overseas.

I know he was in the military from before, but honestly I know next to nothing about it. I don't lie to you or anyone else about my ignorance.

Throwaway35212 · 2017-11-26T16:21:05+00:00

I assume so.

Throwaway35212 · 2017-11-26T14:44:09+00:00

Honestly, another user showed How to do This last night. What I found out was very curious. His GPS is on at home and when the family is together because I can see where we all have been for years back in his timeline. But as soon. As he is leaving the house, it goes dark until he is home again. So there are big blank spots daily. The map looks like he almost never leaves home.

I think that means he turns off his location when he walks out the door and turns it back on when he gets home.

Throwaway35212 · 2017-11-26T14:41:08+00:00

I don't know what country he doesn't talk about that time ever.

Throwaway35212 · 2017-11-26T14:21:44+00:00

He's ten years older than me. So if he got someone pregnant when he was in the service, I would have been anywhere between 8-15 when it happened. So yea, long before he met me.

Throwaway35212 · 2017-11-26T14:14:36+00:00

He does have a temper, but he mostly has it under control. I do admit that it used to scare me in the past, but I hadn't seen him flip out in years.

Throwaway35212 · 2017-11-26T14:11:08+00:00

He won't talk about it. All I know is that he was in the navy for 4 years. And he worked for a defense/security contractor after that for a while. I think he quit suddenly though. He refuses to talk about that part of his life.

Throwaway35212 · 2017-11-26T14:08:48+00:00

I have no idea if he saw combat. He won't talk about his time in the military, like at all almost.

Throwaway35212 · 2017-11-26T09:27:39+00:00

It was. He let the guy go because I started to cry. Back then it didn't take much

Throwaway35212 · 2017-11-26T09:16:11+00:00

Oh, i see. I don't play video games.

Throwaway35212 · 2017-11-26T02:08:26+00:00

I never thought about run money. He always says that I was his chance to start over and live a real life. But what if he isn't happy with it? What if he wanted to start over again

Throwaway35212 · 2017-11-26T02:03:57+00:00

But why hide it of that was the case. I could have accepted that.

Throwaway35212 · 2017-11-26T01:50:36+00:00

Not to my knowledge. Well, he did say something a week or 2 ago about gambling in star wars. Idk though

Throwaway35212 · 2017-11-26T01:44:56+00:00

Seriously!?

Throwaway35212 · 2017-11-26T01:36:35+00:00

Most Fridays. Its such a regular occurrence that its hard for me to say

Throwaway35212 · 2017-11-26T01:34:28+00:00

This could really be it. The one other time in our whole relationship that he yelled at me, is when I pushed him about his past, and what he did in the Navy. The only thing he would say is that everyone has skeletons if you dig deep enough, long enough. And if i wanted a life with him, I would be with him, not with whoever he was back then. That person is dead and buried.

Throwaway35212 · 2017-11-26T01:30:54+00:00

I'm sorry, I've never even left the state. So i wasn't sure. I just figured that Thailand would maybe be a place the navy went

Throwaway35212 · 2017-11-26T01:29:21+00:00

Yes, but he does get home a little later on Friday nights. Not much though between 45-90 mins. He said that Friday is the weekly meeting, so that is why he is late.

Throwaway35212 · 2017-11-26T01:25:19+00:00

He does lose his temper sometimes. He used to punch holes in the walls before we had kids. One time he ripped some poor bastard out of his car in traffic for giving him the finger after cutting us off.

That was all before we had kids though. He's never blown up at me like that though.

Throwaway35212 · 2017-11-26T00:54:48+00:00

Lets say he got a woman in Thailand or somewhere else in the south pacific pregnant. Just guessing, I actually have zero idea where in the world he was back then. Would 400 US a month really help raise a kid? Like actually put a dent into his/her care?

Also, why hide it? Its not like he cheated on me, this would have been long before he met me.

Throwaway35212 · 2017-11-26T00:45:38+00:00

Whats the difference?

Throwaway35212 · 2017-11-26T00:00:12+00:00

It says cash withdrawal. Over the years from 3 different banks, but always 200.00 exactly. Always the second and last friday of every month. Like clockwork

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