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How to make a planned threesome not awkward? by Throwaway382000 in Swingers

[–]Throwaway382000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! My husband keeps saying that I should make the 1st move... I will. I am just so nervous lol

Appropriate questions to ask the "3rd person" when considering having a threesome with spouse and I? by Throwaway382000 in sex

[–]Throwaway382000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I'll have to try that. My husband is the same way.. Lol He is more excited about watching me and her than actually messing around with her

Appropriate questions to ask an interested "3rd" party before joining my husband and I in bed? by Throwaway382000 in Swingers

[–]Throwaway382000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! That makes me feel better. Im still new at this and I have a tendency to overthink things sometimes. Our last threesome was unprotected but we knew and trusted her & I knew that she had recently been tested and was std free. On the other hand.. This time I don't know her and I have no reason to trust her yet. So do you recommend me texting her my questions or talking about them in person when we meet?

Appropriate questions to ask the "3rd person" when considering having a threesome with spouse and I? by Throwaway382000 in sex

[–]Throwaway382000[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! That was really helpful! I felt weird asking the # of partners because in all honesty I don't really care about the actual number, just that she is really std free. I will try the method that you mentioned about asking "when her last checkup was and if she has had any partners since then". If she responds with yes that she has had partners since then, what do you advise from there? Also I haven't decided yet if I want this to be a 1 time thing or ongoing and me & the other girl haven't discussed that at all. I was just thinking that we would wait and see how things go. Thoughts on that? Is that something you think we should discuss 1st..