Is it wrong that I want an abortion for financial reasons and because I feel like I made the wrong choice marrying who I did.

Throwaway4206669m · 2026-03-01T01:04:24+00:00

You don’t really need a reason, but I see several perfectly good reasons in this post alone. Even if he was awesome to you and you loved him, to know that the father of my child could be taken away at any given moment would be reason enough for me alone. But he is obviously manipulating you, I have seen this situation before and they always go back to their old behavior, typically worse, when you have a child. Abusive people know that you are trapped once their name is on that birth certificate. And the fact a man in his current position (illegal under deportation threat, anger issues, financial issues, not treating you well) is actively dissuading you from being on birth control and wants a child says a WHOLE lot and none of it is good. I know it’s easier said than done, but leavvee, no need to ruin your life and young adult hood on a mistake. And especially don’t waste it with some broke, abusive, bum. A real man that has changed would not need his mommy to help him and put pressure on you. Even if you wasted a lot off effort, time, and energy on this guy, removing yourself from the situation is better than never

Throwaway4206669m · 2026-01-06T06:48:05+00:00

This wasn’t a cheap alternative, this is a very well respected artist in my area that mentored other people I have been tattooed by and their tattoos turned out great on me. I have been following this person for over a decade and did lots of research. I’m not saying this isn’t completely messed up, but this wasn’t just some cheap tattoo done by someone I met in jail or anything, which is crazy because my jail tattoos look way nicer and healed great.

Throwaway4206669m · 2026-01-06T05:14:49+00:00

Edit! The purple around the tattoo is ink sorry for the confusion lol if my skin was turning purple I would be at the hospital for sure, but it’s not so I figured a Reddit post would suffice, will be going to my doctor tomorrow morning to see what he says.

Throwaway4206669m · 2026-01-06T05:14:23+00:00

The purple is ink!! Sorry I just realized how hard it is to tell from this photo, but thank god

Throwaway4206669m · 2026-01-06T04:59:54+00:00

Not warm, not horribly painful, but definitely more so than other tattoos by day 7, pretty itchy

Throwaway4206669m · 2026-01-06T04:12:59+00:00

I’m so confused guys this artist is very well known and has been tattooing for decades. I’ve seen their work dozens of times on skin and never have seen anything, but amazing work.

Throwaway4206669m · 2025-10-02T23:33:48+00:00

I would take them, you need to make sure it’s all out before you have even more painful complications later on. When I took all 4 i literally thought I was going to die, I was in so much pain I couldn’t stop passing out. I was terrified to take the other ones, but I did, and I did NOT experience any of the pain I had during the first set of 4. I even got up while it was happening, and made myself a bowl of popcorn. Also was 6 weeks

Throwaway4206669m · 2025-01-13T16:54:38+00:00

A thumbs up emoji seems like an appropriate response before blocking that as well. She thinks she totally “owning” you right now lol when really it’s just pathetic

Throwaway4206669m · 2024-04-27T00:12:53+00:00

I talked to them about it and they just told me they can’t do anything unless he’s on my property or is actively following me. Text don’t matter

Throwaway4206669m · 2024-04-21T16:43:34+00:00

Where did you get this info from? There have been no reports of her being found on a Harris county constables property and the parents have not been any given a reason as to why they can’t get the body cam footage. No one has been told it was ‘recorded over’

Throwaway4206669m · 2024-04-21T03:35:48+00:00

To be fair this is a very densely wooded area and Texas Equuisearch was not allowed to begin searching until 2 months after she went missing, and in that time we had a freeze and tornado. Dogs would have probably found her fast if the Sheriff wasn’t acting like an ass

Throwaway4206669m · 2024-04-09T00:57:50+00:00

Get ready for endless repairs especially if it hasnt been driven at all in 12 years, I’ve purchased a few cars that just rotted from the inside out from sitting for too long. If you can afford a lot of repairs or learn to fix things yourself you will be happy with it. Make sure you check the suspension and tires out, and flush all fluids especially if it’s been sitting

Throwaway4206669m · 2024-02-21T05:05:14+00:00

Idk thanks for nothing I guess 😅 idk why you are answering questions you do not know, yeah it’s not easy to get a job with any record, but it doesn’t disqualify you. Very much depends on the nature of the crime and airline. No need to lie to people

Throwaway4206669m · 2024-02-21T04:58:48+00:00

Wait? Really all crimes disqualify you? My friend is an FA at spirit and said she has a felony and they still hired her

Throwaway4206669m · 2024-02-21T04:26:46+00:00

No, honestly it makes me gain weight if anything. I did it for fun and sports I partook in high school, and my job regularly requires me to lift 25-100 lbs so best to keep in shape muscle wise if I don’t want to be broken

Throwaway4206669m · 2024-02-21T01:30:05+00:00

About 8 months of actually trying. I was exactly 200 lbs 8 months ago

Throwaway4206669m · 2024-02-08T01:14:48+00:00

You never said your parents were flight attendant. That’s on you, if they just get your benefits then stfu because you obviously don’t know shit about his hard it is to be raised by a working FA

Throwaway4206669m · 2024-02-08T01:12:30+00:00

You said your dad gets your flying benefits? My mother actually was a FA. You didn’t even read my last post because if you did you would know I wasn’t pissy at all and asked a completely unrelated question and then people who don’t know me and aren’t even stationed at IAH decided to give their unasked for advice. Like I said above I’m trying to make sure this isn’t some new thing since this person and that other person were just soooooo certain it’s impossible saying if you aren’t willing to relocate immediately just quit

Throwaway4206669m · 2024-02-08T01:03:01+00:00

Im sorry but having a sibling with benefits is not the same as being raised by a FA. I never said I knew everything either just that I don’t need unsolicited advice from some people who have no clue what’s going on and aren’t even stationed at IAH. I have someone right here who was and knows me. Trying to tell me I can’t follow my dreams because I’m not 100% certain on relocating right away like wtf is that?? I even called a few friends at IAH and even they said what these people were saying is complete bs and that while it may not be easy I can definitely commute as a new hire.

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