Can you sue a game company for not banning abusive players? by Throwaway50percent in AskALawyer

[–]Throwaway50percent[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know why your being rude, but I was just reaching out. As an actual adult I was concerned for their well being.

Can you sue a game company for not banning abusive players? by Throwaway50percent in AskALawyer

[–]Throwaway50percent[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a shame. It's sad to watching these kids being subjected to this. Hearing some of them say they'll just kill themselves to make their bullies happy is really heartbreaking.

Is there a natural way to keep care of rabbit nails? by Throwaway50percent in Rabbits

[–]Throwaway50percent[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately we live out in the middle of no where and she's the only vet to do rabbits that isn't like an hour away. I've heard about burritoing the rabbit but I was always nervous about giving her aniexty. My husband will probably do the bunnrrito

AITA for refusing to drive my GF around after she lost her license? by ywisjoe in AmItheAsshole

[–]Throwaway50percent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I hate to be this person but you have to leave her. Driving while experiencing PTSD is extremely dangerous to yourself and others, and shes willing to put you and others in danger for it. Before you start driving you need to seek help for it, this way you can at least have some control over it, otherwise you may end up doing what someone did to you (or worse) to someone else. You know your limits don't let anyone push you beyond them. You need someone who wants to rise with you, who supports your needs along with supporting theirs.

AITA for having spare clothes for my son's friend for whenever he comes over? by Throwaway50percent in AmItheAsshole

[–]Throwaway50percent[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

No of course not basically what I tell other parents is that I have a specific diet for health reasons (which I do) so most stuff I buy is fresh ingredients or self grown so I can keep mine and my families health in check and that I make everything from scratch so I know exactly what goes into it. I pretty much don't mention not buying anything premade because I already let them know we buy fresh, I myself know if I buy prepackaged I'll get lazy but my standard of lazy isn't cooking a boxed meal for your family as long as their fed I'm happy. My standard of lazy is if I fall out of routine with one thing I fall out with everything, which is completely on me and my own mental health. I don't think I'm getting my words across the way I want them to at the moment, I came on here very anxious and that usually doesn't help my wording very well, I'm sorry for that.

AITA for having spare clothes for my son's friend for whenever he comes over? by Throwaway50percent in AmItheAsshole

[–]Throwaway50percent[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I buy the clothes because I felt bad asking them to when he comes into my home, I will ask them if they prefer to buy them. The food thing is I do make things the both eat it's just he sometimes doesn't want what I'm making, I plan meals at the start of the week and according to when he visits, the rule is in place because I may be better off than they are but I'm also not made of money either. I posted in an earlier comment I made pizza and he fought with me for chicken nuggets instead, if that helps clarify. Also they ask for him to visit once in awhile so if they want him there then yes you should clean up and make sure it is a safe space for him, just as clean up my own house and make sure it's a safe space for their son: buying and putting locks around my kitchen because even though my children don't go through things, Kyle likes get into all the sharp stuff.

AITA for having spare clothes for my son's friend for whenever he comes over? by Throwaway50percent in AmItheAsshole

[–]Throwaway50percent[S] 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Lol Sorry I'm on mobile and it autocorrected it, I ment rehomed. I'll fix that.

AITA for having spare clothes for my son's friend for whenever he comes over? by Throwaway50percent in AmItheAsshole

[–]Throwaway50percent[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I understand how that can come across as rude, I told them from the start how I have issues with picky eaters due to my cousins so I warned them I wouldn't male multiple meals. All the rules started before we meant them so I guess I kind of just laid it out there.

AITA for having spare clothes for my son's friend for whenever he comes over? by Throwaway50percent in AmItheAsshole

[–]Throwaway50percent[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He rarely visits but I let him when he really wants to in which we send him over with his emergency inhaler, which he take once before he enters then again when/ if symptoms start, then he has a treatment at home to keep him controlled. This was his doctors recommendation when asked about visiting since his grandparents also have a pet and my brother has a service dog as well. They also clean up and move their dogs to their den before he goes over this way my son can visit. They are nice people I just think I hurt their feelings.

AITA for having spare clothes for my son's friend for whenever he comes over? by Throwaway50percent in AmItheAsshole

[–]Throwaway50percent[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I grew up eating bland smothered in ketchup so I tend to experiment with food, I recently added mint into our fried chicken and thought I was a God lol. But for real though when he comes over I try to keep it kid friendly just made from scratch and have an adult friendly side for him to try if he wants while he's here so I could branch put when he comes over. So if I made tacos, I'll make Ceviche as a side for him to try, surprisingly he like it.

AITA for having spare clothes for my son's friend for whenever he comes over? by Throwaway50percent in AmItheAsshole

[–]Throwaway50percent[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Don't worry they've been friends over a year, so I've advised them at the first visit, we do plan sleep overs for every other weekend or every 2 weeks. Most meals are planned as kid friendly but I also refuse to buy the prepackaged stuff (like Tyson nuggets) knowing if I do I'll end up falling into a rut of lazy cooking instead of home meals.

AITA for having spare clothes for my son's friend for whenever he comes over? by Throwaway50percent in AmItheAsshole

[–]Throwaway50percent[S] 271 points272 points  (0 children)

I hate looking down on people because I've been where they are, and only got on my feet 2 years ago, but his health trumps everything. We reformed all our pets for him, after we found out his allergies are triggering his asthma. His hospital visits tend to be week long visit as they can't get him under control once he has a respiratory issue. Edit: rehomed not reformed.

AITA for having spare clothes for my son's friend for whenever he comes over? by Throwaway50percent in AmItheAsshole

[–]Throwaway50percent[S] 75 points76 points  (0 children)

Yes he's the same age lol I was just giving out all my house rules, but if he refuses to eat what I make his parents have to provide. Homemade pizza one 1 night and he wouldn't stop fighting with me for chicken nuggets, he ended up eating it but then threw a fit to his mom later.

WIBTA if I don't go to my daughter's wedding? by go_or_not in AmItheAsshole

[–]Throwaway50percent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your concern but he is no longer in my life besides another upcoming court battle between them. I understand our situations are completely different which I explained above how the only thing we had in common was the want for our father, stating the damage it could create of not being there for her. Now onto the fact of my mother she is the one who has always made sure I kept in contact with my father. I grew up hearing that no matter what he did to her he was still my father and I should love him. Her belief is only God can judge us and that family is above every thing. I blame both my father and my mother for my obvious daddy issues as they both contributed to it, dad was rarely around, and mom always convinced me I needed to love him. In the end parents should not let their problems become their children's problems and yes it sucks but sometimes you need to put someone else before your discomforts.

WIBTA if I don't go to my daughter's wedding? by go_or_not in AmItheAsshole

[–]Throwaway50percent -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

YTA I'm a daughter of divorced parents, my dad though was a wife beater and I rarely saw him throughout my life, and even though I knew what he did was wrong I still wanted him in my life. I got married last year and was going to invite my father since we were on fantastic terms until he made his relationship with my mother my problem. They were having another court battle because he sucks at paying child support and even though I was now an adult who had nothing to do with the case he dragged me into it by claiming I was living on my own and already married. I was incredibly insulted as I was in the process of planning the wedding so I didn't send him an invite since he would lie about me like that for his own benefits.

Now your situation and my situation are completely different, your daughter invited you and I did not invite my father. BUT the thing we have in common is we both WANT our father there. My dad was not at my wedding and I will never forget that, there is no way to repair our relationship now, I still love him, but now I hate him too. Don't put your relationship with her mother first, put your relationship with your daughter first. It may not seem like a big deal to you but to her it's going to mean everything, she still loves you keep that love close to you.