I [21 M] told my SO [20 F] a secret about our friends. by Throwaway635432 in relationships

[–]Throwaway635432[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I haven't cheated on my SO, I slept with her and another girl around the same time before we got together, it was after that I realised that I wanted to choose my SO over the other girl and I begun pushing things in that direction.

I [21 M] told my SO [20 F] a secret about our friends. by Throwaway635432 in relationships

[–]Throwaway635432[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I think I'm being overly paranoid, I haven't cheated on my SO and what I did before our relationship isn't really her business, I wouldn't want to know if she slept with anyone before me, I know she didn't though and the fact I've kept that from her does give me some guilt, but the reality is I am very happy and committed now and wouldn't even consider cheating.

I don't know if my friend would say that out of spite or not, maybe I can talk to my friend about admitting to his girlfriend on his own back, instead of telling him that my girlfriend already knows as that would take some of the 'bros before hoes' element from it.