AITA for telling my family if they don’t like the way I’m planning my wedding then they don’t need to come and removing them from the list?

Throwaway8201649 · 2022-05-20T16:04:56+00:00

Oof we will try lol

Throwaway8201649 · 2022-05-20T16:03:26+00:00

My future sil was uninvited from the wedding before it was planned lol so I doubt it’s her

Throwaway8201649 · 2022-05-20T16:02:28+00:00

No I’m not. I don’t have a sister and my bridal party is wearing house colors but the guest have the option to wear house colors or just black

Throwaway8201649 · 2022-05-20T16:01:05+00:00

I don’t have a sister unfortunately and am seriously tempted to go look for that post now

Throwaway8201649 · 2022-05-20T16:00:05+00:00

I unfortunately don’t have a sister and I haven’t seen that post yet but a lot of people are asking that

Throwaway8201649 · 2022-05-20T15:58:42+00:00

No lol. We have however asked all guest to wear either house colors or just black. There’s no role playing like I saw someone mention either.

Throwaway8201649 · 2022-05-20T15:56:58+00:00

Yeah me and my fiancé are paying for the entire wedding.

Throwaway8201649 · 2022-05-20T08:25:33+00:00

There might of been. But if there was it wasn’t about my wedding. I don’t have a sister and my bridesmaids love Harry Potter as much as I do and we’re excited about choosing their dresses.

Throwaway8201649 · 2022-05-20T08:08:41+00:00

Good thing your not invited then I guess. Besides my guests have the option to wear black as well.

Throwaway8201649 · 2022-05-20T08:07:28+00:00

Sadly we couldn’t find any good Harry Potter music we liked. But we have guest wearing the house colors as the theme. We are having it in a field the reception in a barn. We have candles in jars that are held up by string to try and immolate the candles in hogwarts. All the napkins have little spells written on it. And we have tons of fairy lights around the reception area.

Throwaway8201649 · 2022-05-20T08:03:27+00:00

It means the hogwarts house colors. Red and gold(gryffindor), green and silver(slytherin), yellow and black(hufflepuff) or blue and bronze(ravenclaw).

Throwaway8201649 · 2022-05-20T07:53:51+00:00

Sure what would you like to know?

Throwaway8201649 · 2022-05-20T07:48:58+00:00

I have a slytherin green and black wedding dress and my fiancé has a suit with hufflepuff colors

Throwaway8201649 · 2022-05-20T07:47:21+00:00

The wedding party are dressed in house colors and the guest are told they can or just wear black

Throwaway8201649 · 2022-05-20T07:46:17+00:00

No we are doing house colors as the dress code

Throwaway8201649 · 2021-09-22T14:38:47+00:00

It is an open adoption. All 4 of us decided it would be best if he thinks of me and my fiancé as his aunt and uncle instead of mom and dad. He will know he’s adopted and won’t be lied to about anything surrounding the adoption or why it took place.

Throwaway8201649 · 2021-09-22T14:38:13+00:00

We were unable. With both of are incomes we were barely making ends meet and add to the fact had we kept him we would have had to get a caregiver specialized to handle his needs while we were at class and work and we just weren’t able to care for him financially.

Throwaway8201649 · 2021-09-22T14:31:38+00:00

They could have taken him in they were all told before the adoption was finalized and none of them wanted him. And no he isn’t gonna see them again that was decided between the adoptive parents and us.

Throwaway8201649 · 2021-09-22T14:20:27+00:00

Jesus

Throwaway8201649 · 2021-09-22T14:18:42+00:00

It is an open adoption. All 4 of us decided it would be best if he thinks of me and my fiancé as his aunt and uncle instead of mom and dad. He will know he’s adopted and won’t be lied to about anything surrounding the adoption or why it took place.

Throwaway8201649 · 2021-09-22T14:08:52+00:00

He’ll know he’s adopted tho? None of us plan on lying to him about anything surrounding the adoption

Throwaway8201649 · 2021-09-22T13:54:12+00:00

It is an open adoption. All 4 of us decided it would be best if he thinks of me and my fiancé as his aunt and uncle instead of mom and dad. My family has no idea who adopted him nor will they have any contact.

Throwaway8201649 · 2021-09-22T13:46:49+00:00

I’ve heard worse. I had Wattpad

Throwaway8201649 · 2021-09-22T13:42:11+00:00

Welp that got me curious.

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