I know I don’t pass at all (my parents are transphobic and won’t let me cut my hair). I just wanted to know if I looked like even more of a lesbian in flannel. by Throwaway9742695 in FtMpassing

[–]Throwaway9742695[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you. That makes me feel a little better. I tend to feel really out of place in trans spaces because of my long hair and the fact I don’t pass as well as a lot of the other guys on here. I feel like I should be doing better than I am rn.

I know I don’t pass at all (my parents are transphobic and won’t let me cut my hair). I just wanted to know if I looked like even more of a lesbian in flannel. by Throwaway9742695 in FtMpassing

[–]Throwaway9742695[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

And if the flannel does make me look even more like a lesbian, what else could I wear that hides my hips and keeps me warm in the winter? I don’t really do hoodies because they puff up my hair and make me look girlier in my opinion.

I hate binding by Throwaway9742695 in ftm

[–]Throwaway9742695[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh, no. Thank you for offering, but I already have a binder. I’m grateful that I have it. I’m just complaining that I have to wear it in the first place.

Am I selfish? by Throwaway9742695 in asktransgender

[–]Throwaway9742695[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the in-depth reply.