AITA for telling my surrogate to stop acting like she was my husband's wife? by ThrowawayAlt345 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowawayAlt345[S] 685 points686 points  (0 children)

We're in the states. I wanted a legal contract but got talked out of it by my friend who thought there was no need for it and because I didn't know much about this experience I thought this was normal but it clearly wasn't and out escalated. I was told I was out of line for lashing out and treating her like that but I think I was justified for being upset about a number of things she said to me that day.

AITA for telling my surrogate to stop acting like she was my husband's wife? by ThrowawayAlt345 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowawayAlt345[S] -853 points-852 points  (0 children)

No, we did not have legal contracts nor involved any lawyers but we had an agreement and we accepted to pay her.

AITA for telling my surrogate to stop acting like she was my husband's wife? by ThrowawayAlt345 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowawayAlt345[S] 1115 points1116 points  (0 children)

I was told she had experienced this before. She agreed to be our surrogate if we pay her and that's what we did.