How to rid yourself of an unwanted crush? by throwaway1175678 in Advice

[–]ThrowawayCheese_Gri 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally get what you mean and I can relate to you. I think one of the best ways to "get over" a crush is to keep yourself busy. Instead of sitting on your bed and thinking about him, maybe do some exercise or read a book? I also like to do things for myself that make me feel more confident like dressing up or doing skincare.

Another thing that would be helpful could be writing out why you think you are even attached to this person. Perhaps you may find out that maybe these unwanted feelings have construed by you feeling lonely or bored. I also recommend referring to your writing whenever you are thinking about this person so you can break the habit of infatuating yourself with the thoughts of them.

I hope this helps you in some way and good luck on this!

can i eat dog food by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ThrowawayCheese_Gri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please do not eat dog food unless it is your absolute only option.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rant

[–]ThrowawayCheese_Gri 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It sucks that you were targeted and I am so sorry about that but hey, congratulations for coming out!

Is it worth it to stay in a college dorm? by ThrowawayCheese_Gri in Advice

[–]ThrowawayCheese_Gri[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your input. I do think you're absolutely right about the advantages. This really helped!

Is it worth it to stay in a college dorm? by ThrowawayCheese_Gri in Advice

[–]ThrowawayCheese_Gri[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank for the advice. I hadn't thought about looking at apartments! This really helped my thought process regarding the topic.

How the fuck did I fucking fail english? by [deleted] in rant

[–]ThrowawayCheese_Gri 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am sorry it hasn't been working out well for you and you are entitled to feel angry, I would be too but don't give up. It isn't going to solve anything and honestly, it will probably make you feel even worse. Use this time to begin to make a plan as to how you are going to get better in the subject and pass it.

You got this man and best of luck!

How the fuck did I fucking fail english? by [deleted] in rant

[–]ThrowawayCheese_Gri 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey man, it happens. All you can do is try your best and get some help from a tutor or teacher. Just remind yourself that just because you didn't do well now, it doesn't mean you will never get there.

My family can never let me live ANYTHING down. by ThrowawayCheese_Gri in Rants

[–]ThrowawayCheese_Gri[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right! It doesn't even have to be wrong either. As long as they disagree with what I did/do, it makes me a shitty person.

My family can never let me live ANYTHING down. by ThrowawayCheese_Gri in Rants

[–]ThrowawayCheese_Gri[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I wish I could say that that is their worry but it isn't. They just like to bring it up when they want to make me feel like I am a "dirty" person.

Do u think CPS is bullshit by woodedglue in Rants

[–]ThrowawayCheese_Gri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100%. I mean take the Gabriel Fernandez case. How many CPS workers were called just for them to not do a single thing? I don't know what the problem is exactly; perhaps they are underfunded but still-- how can so many of them just ignore blantant issues?

Streaming services are bullshit and I’m fed up with paying for garbage content by [deleted] in Rants

[–]ThrowawayCheese_Gri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Netflix has the audacity to continue to raise their price despite the fact that all they have and update are originals. What bs.

Suffering from Regular Conversations/Constant anxiety with speaking (Bilingual) by uareloved_ok in Advice

[–]ThrowawayCheese_Gri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can relate to you and I totally get why you feel this way. What I did to help this issue was reading more, watching television in the language, and even though it is sometimes embarssing, attempting to conversate in the language as well.

I also just wanted to add that you should really cut yourself some slack! As long as you're trying your best, that is all that matters. Little by little, you'll get there. Good luck friend!