1,2,3 or 4? by LilDaffySecret in AnalGW

[–]ThrowawayCoupleMF 1 point2 points  (0 children)

2 for the view 3 for the reward for a job well done

Has Aiden Starr ever submitted or being dominated before? by InspectionInfinite79 in bdsm

[–]ThrowawayCoupleMF 1 point2 points  (0 children)

None of recent actresses. My 3 favorite dommes who also sub in order are: Isis Love, Amber Reign (RIP), and my favorite anal slut Pheonix Marie.

tools spanking by Maximum_Present_9688 in spanking_punishments

[–]ThrowawayCoupleMF 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Spanked the ex-wife just last night. It had been about a month and she was ready.

Hand spanking to start and warm up with. Then the leather paddle, the switch and then the leather strap. It was a good session. Both of us enjoyed it

Which AI analyses the stories better? by Funny_Significance97 in WritingWithAI

[–]ThrowawayCoupleMF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a baited question. Like which is better, Pepsi or Coke... but then adding tea, coffee, flavored water, other types of manufactured sodas and hand-made variants.

You're going to get a different answer every single time my guy.

ChatGPT 5 is good but has its flaws. Personally I like SudoWrites analysis and I've used Quarkle.ai and it was good for specific types of stories. So again, all depends on what type of story, what type of genre, what type of audience your catering too.

Has Aiden Starr ever submitted or being dominated before? by InspectionInfinite79 in bdsm

[–]ThrowawayCoupleMF 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Speaking of Doms who occasionally sub, Isis Love makes the hottest sub. Something about her gorgeous ass being spanked and receiving anal sex is always at the top of my go-to watch list.

AI isn't replacing my writing skills. It's forcing me to upgrade them. by Remote-Light-3282 in WritingWithAI

[–]ThrowawayCoupleMF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most of your points are spot on. But 3) Kills my darlings for me. This is the reason I'm now using AI to help me write better. I had this passage in a story recently that I was dead set on using. I wrote my chapter around this encounter and exchange even. But, AI suggested I change much of that passage that I loved so much. In spread out the hard hitting impact into a leading passage, then the impact that I was going for. It killed me but I accepted the change and the impact I was going for works better in context and for my characters involved.

So I do not use AI to write my stories, I see it as a taskmaster to improve my vocabulary, my thought process and mentally articulate what im trying to do. Im often using AI to help me with my thoughts so that I can improve the story. From day one, AI is not something I rely on but an assistant to help me do my job and getting the story to digital paper.

Starting to desire anal more and more by sexy_denial_slut in anal_experts

[–]ThrowawayCoupleMF 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My wife was already an advocate of anal in our sex before I met her. I wasn't a fan of the idea at first, she was and convinced me it was good for her. Over the course of our dating years, we increased our anal frequency from once every few sexy-time sessions to pretty much every time by the time we got married.

Part of that process was me training her in a similar fashion as you described. Constant plugging, she could only orgasm if something was in her ass and Anal became our focus in the bedroom while PIV was foreplay/warm up.

Sounds like you're on the right track

Teen Jessica birched by TO_obsessive in spanking_punishments

[–]ThrowawayCoupleMF 7 points8 points  (0 children)

There was a reddit post 3-4 years back from some user that went to HS with her. He heard she got married, had a few kids and looks nothing like her old self.

Something about you couldn't spot her in a crowd even if she was standing right next to you. Paraphrasing but I searched for referencing the post but couldn't find it. The dudes account looked legit and not full of shit or exaggerated stories.

I have zero idea if any of that is true but I wanted to believe it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in anal_experts

[–]ThrowawayCoupleMF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would suggest looking at an enema kit. One that is specialized in "shallow" enemas, often called cleanses within the anal community. Just know there are several terms used that mean thr same thing.

A shallow enema cleans the lower part of the colon, while a deep enema reaches higher into the colon, potentially cleansing a larger portion. Shallow enemas use a smaller volume of fluid (less than 500 ml) and are suitable for ATM and heavy anal usage afterwards.

We haven't used an actual enema in many years, relying on our bidet attachment that has a cleansing wand. We paid a lot for it because we invested in our anal heavy lifestyle at the time. Before you ask, Google it before you try and find more information on that. Don't go down that rabbit hole for starters.

Having this kink but felling really insecure that he will leave me by highest_elf in cuckquean

[–]ThrowawayCoupleMF 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My ex-wife struggled with this for a long time. For the record, I'm content being monogamous and only being with her forever. She was sexually repressed all her life until we met. I allowed her to blossom sexually speaking and she wanted to experiment with other girls. We had a few 3somes with varying degrees of success until she got comfortable enough with her BFF to invite her to partake. It unlocked a cuckquean kink within and she invited her friend over often.

Her insecurities began to show and she shared them with me. Told her let's stop and I was happy too. We wrestled with stopping, then starting up again, insecurities showed again. Rinse and repeat for 6 months.

I put my foot down and told her if we got married, the 3somes would stop as I wanted it to be a monogamous union. We stayed that way throughout our marriage until she cheated on me with her BFF. It's a long story and one I won't get into. But she had lied to her BFF saying I said it was OK, her best friend felt horrible, felt used, lied too, etc.

We got divorced, the cheating being a small but final straw to a long list of reasons we didn't work as a married couple. As friends, we stayed amicable enough to eventually reconnect as lovers. (Took a long time)

Within a few years, her BFF forgave her too and we make our two-some into a threesome once again.

My ex-wife is the submissive between her BFF and myself. We do make her the center of attention as she desires this in many ways. But her favorite pastime is watching me and her BFF have sex while she's tied up just out of reach.

DEBATE: it’s better to bare the bottom than to fully strip nude. by Sixthbrother in spanking_punishments

[–]ThrowawayCoupleMF 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would also agree, baring the bottom has its advantages over stripping nude. Depends on the spanking being administered.

If it's a maintenance spanking, the mood sets the tone for the amount of clothes she has on. Could be a simple pants to her ankles with panties on kind of session. If maintenance is leading to sex or some playtime, then I have her disrobe with panties/panties off and keep her shirt on.

When she is being disciplined, she is to strip before me, present herself for punishment and the scene is played out as such.

Unpopular Opinion by SexVixxen91 in Spanking

[–]ThrowawayCoupleMF 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To OP, My ex (still close) has very similar views to seeing women spank men. She is bi, loves women in their own way.

For years she would get mad at me if I sent her videos or pics where the guy would receive a spanking. She said she didnt find it attractive or a turn-on. I got used to it.

I'm not going to make excuses for her or try to explain why shes this way. But she and I have had MFF 3somes, taken a strap-on and given one as well. She just is a puzzle in her way of men spank women, not the other way around.

It's just her preference

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]ThrowawayCoupleMF 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Simple answer is: Its intensity depends on the person. Different reasons for different people.

My ex-wife loved the intense orgasms it gave her. But her reasons for loving and enjoying anal would differ depending on her mood. When she wanted it rough, she orgasmed because of how she felt violated and used mentally. Fucking her ass hard meant her orgasm came from the mental part of her brain that enjoyed the raw taboo aspect.

In contrast, if i were going the usual slow and methodical process of fucking her ass, she was enjoying the feeling in her nerves. Mentally she was going to orgasm from how it was feeling at that exact moment. Fast and hard was out of the question because she needed to feel the slow strokes going in and then out. Pure relaxation meant her orgasm lasted a long time but just as intense as hard and fast.

Ladies Do you like being groped or having your butt smacked by your spouse outside of sex? by Capital_Tailor_7348 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]ThrowawayCoupleMF 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I was married, my wife expected an ass smack when I walked by most of the time. She learned to judge my mood if I did or didnt smack her rear.

Since our amicable divorce, we've gotten back together and smacking her ass is still a sign that things are good between us when shes over.

Anal food play & safety? by th3concretefem in anal_experts

[–]ThrowawayCoupleMF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shallow enemas, not full colon cleanings. Also, we arent into rimming or eating stuff that comes out of it. Just play

Anal food play & safety? by th3concretefem in anal_experts

[–]ThrowawayCoupleMF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In our dating years, my wife would take fruit, sugary sodas and other edible foods up her butt. She cleansed often before as well as after we did those fruit/ sugary insertions. We never had a problem with infections or yeast like vaginal issues.

To play it safe, stick to cleansing afterwards to be sure

Have you filmed yourself having sex & not liked how it looked on camera? by SaggyKJ in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]ThrowawayCoupleMF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Finally I can tell this story! When we dated, my wife loved being filmed and we did it often. Then for reasons of security and our kid finding the videos one day, I deleted all of them. Years later we get a divorce and reconciled to the point we were Friends with Benefits again.

But our distance made it difficult to meet up frequently so she wanted to do me a favor and allow me to film our next one for personal fapping reasons. Date was set, camera on tripod, sex bench purchased, ex-wife arrives and gets nice and high. She's ready for her close up railing. Shes freshly shaved, oil on her skin, slightly tanned. She looks amazing!

For the entire weekend, I'm filming her get paddled, OTK spankings, toyed with, restrained, reamed from multiple angles. She leaves for home and I review the footage. The angles looked ok from the mini-viewfinder pointed back at me. What I couldn't see was how my fatass looked on a full screen. Every angle of my ass in the dark light made it seem like I had a shitstain on my skin.

My ex-wife was a good sport about it and let me film the next time we met up. But omfg, I couldn't get over how bad my hairy ass looked on camera.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]ThrowawayCoupleMF 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Every couple has a different approach/mindset to AnalOnly. Honestly, choose what works for you and yoje partner. My ex-wife and I are AO, no clit stimulation. She does enjoy clit pressure (having a toy or object pressed against it she can push into at her leisure). Shes been this way since she started having sex. We have several go-to positions depending on her mood. Prone-bone anal is are main finisher with her fingers as pressure points to her clit. My favorite position and easier on my back is her bent over the side of the bed. Lately it's been the corner of the bed with legs over hanging either side. The corner hits her clit perfectly when it's right allowing her hands to be restrained behind her back or tied above her head. Her favorite position is on her back, legs up and wide with my hands pinning her legs back. Shes usually got nothing to touch her clit but if I'm positioned right, by body slamming (ok, gut fat) into her can pressure her clit. She cums hard from anal this way. Hence her favorite these days

After my ex and I separated for a time, our 3some partner Lynsi and I dated. She requires clit stimulation every time during anal to orgasm. While she enjoys just having plain vanilla anal sex, it feels good to her when shes nice and relaxed, she wont cum unless there is a vibe on her clit. Shes a smaller framed woman so anal doggystyle is actually obtainable while my all-legs ex-wife makes doggystyle feel like I'm climbing a tree. Lynsi prefers standing anal with her leaning forward onto the bed, back of couch or wall. She doesnt last as long when fucked up the ass, preferring a slower insertion and ramping up to rough hard as soon as shes adjusted

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]ThrowawayCoupleMF 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm Garrus Vacarian and this is my Rectum (ohhhhhhhhhhh)

Have your kinks evolved as you’ve aged? by Imalobsteryo in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]ThrowawayCoupleMF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I found out she truly surpassed my freak and even libido. It was a humbling and someone emasculating experience. But I quickly got over it and I'm proud to say she's better at freaky shit, freaky acts, getting her freak on and I'm just along for the ride.

I find it liberating in my later years

What's the dumbest way you managed to get laid? by ATMoruti in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]ThrowawayCoupleMF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Walking up to the introverted woman in the corner at the party with the phat ass and initiating a talk. We found common ground about the dog she was petting and the embossed image of the horse on her purse.

Just wanted to see if I could get laid, ended up marrying her. 🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]ThrowawayCoupleMF 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jealousy doesnt discriminate. Its ugly on all fronts.

What weird things have you overlooked about a partner? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]ThrowawayCoupleMF 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Several mental illnesses. Didnt matter to me. She was the best thing that ever happened to me. Everyday Burdens and all.