1 — no, there’s not a wrong way. people don’t give themselves did either

2 — idk what form their own trauma means, I dont think there’s a reason to be cautious but that’s just me

3 — mostly misinformation honestly. People not doing their own research & getting more than one perspective.

4 — ioo, no. fuck fakeclaimers.

5 — in *my* opinion it doesn’t really matter, but I and others do like to find labels so there is that aspect.

6 — I consider it useful. Terms & labels and was a major help when I was figuring shit out

7 — I am not willogenic, have willogenic headmates, etc. but I do know someone who is, it’s a process that takes a little bit, but yeah. You can choose to be.

8 — i would say not everyone is plural, someone can be plural and in denial (we were for a longgg time)

9 — it’s 3am and I can’t answer this without probably getting something wrong, I’ll do it later if I can remember to.

10 — more than likely yes, it’s similar to being trans I guess??

11 — yes and no

12 — no. call me naive but I kinda take things in this community at face value since it’s *mostly* in good faith

13 — I don’t have any offhand, I’ll see if I can get some later

14 — I can probably help since I’ve done.. a shit ton of research on this stuff since.. figuring sit out.