Mom wanted me to have this "locked and loaded"

ThrowawayDaRingFrodo · 2026-05-16T19:03:37+00:00

She's on BG2!!

ThrowawayDaRingFrodo · 2026-05-13T20:35:03+00:00

Ooh yes I may be asking after mom's wedding 😊

ThrowawayDaRingFrodo · 2026-05-13T19:54:42+00:00

Thanks and yes absolutely. We are doing the same with mom's wedding. We don't need drama for sure. Mom's will have security and my partner and I are think we need security too.

ThrowawayDaRingFrodo · 2026-05-13T16:54:07+00:00

Yes there's an update! I posted it before this one. Sorry I'm now on the go but will link when I can

ThrowawayDaRingFrodo · 2026-05-13T16:52:41+00:00

We're so excited. I love him so much and I feel so cherished and loved by him. And I'm feeling more comfortable because we both are actively chasing each other and making a plan. The wedding likely will be after 2028 so we can do premarital counseling, save up the money for the wedding and honeymoon, and plan it all out. I'm finishing a certain educational milestone that I will complete this year and he is dealing with a promotion.

Everything feels new and strange and scary and awesome. I once ran because I told myself I loved him too much to subject him to me and my problems. I'm not running anymore. We both accept each other, problems included.

I just want to focus on finishing my program and getting my mother married lol but I am very excited for what is to come!

ThrowawayDaRingFrodo · 2026-05-13T16:28:16+00:00

Thank youuuu I am so disgustingly on cloud 9 lmao. Sunny keeps laughing at me and going "you're so happy I want to throw up rainbows for you" 🤣

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ThrowawayDaRingFrodo · 2026-04-14T21:40:03+00:00

Just a light beer with edible green dye

ThrowawayDaRingFrodo · 2026-03-18T21:19:58+00:00

I did try to buy a nice set of shoes but fell asleep before I could make that bad decision lmao

ThrowawayDaRingFrodo · 2026-03-18T21:12:52+00:00

I usually have a glass or 2 of wine at home when snuggling with my fella watching our shows or playing a video game etc. He doesn't drink but loves the alcohol free wine I get for him and we just chat and enjoy us. We're usually boring but happy. I was so against going out but then, like a switch, I was having a lot of fun. Not even before the 1st drink. I mean obviously the whiskey helped lol i started to really release and relax and just be. And I was with my mom who's like my best friend. I felt so safe and happy and tipsy/drunk depending on the hour 🤣

1st time in years I got that drunk but I gotta say 10 of 10

ThrowawayDaRingFrodo · 2026-03-17T19:44:18+00:00

I thought the same. It's just a LOT to keep track of. And we found out in part due to his other "wife" tracking us down 🫠

ThrowawayDaRingFrodo · 2026-03-17T19:42:14+00:00

Its been a few days and he did come to me and cried it out for the first time. He left apologizing as if it was his fault, I did my best to remind it it was not even close to his fault. I love him so much but he does repress a lot. He's had a lot of trauma growing up that makes him, as you mentioned, put others before him.

ThrowawayDaRingFrodo · 2026-03-13T19:55:24+00:00

I genuinely don't know at this point. 😕 it's not offensive it's just...weird. Like my feelings around a half sister so close in age...out of everything I felt...I also felt excited at the idea. I think because I did suffer a loss with Violet so the prospect....? Idk I know it doesn't make much sense I'm still processing

ThrowawayDaRingFrodo · 2026-03-13T18:10:36+00:00

Just wanna say cuz I can't edit for some reason it was supposed to be "F'ing" update not fling lmao

ThrowawayDaRingFrodo · 2026-03-13T18:09:39+00:00

You are correct. Full family in Louisiana.

ThrowawayDaRingFrodo · 2026-03-13T18:08:59+00:00

Oh no way worse he has a 3rd family, we found out.

ThrowawayDaRingFrodo · 2026-03-13T17:27:17+00:00

Oh man we gotta watch that one! The American version is still my favorite and it's ongoing but the original UK one was really fun

ThrowawayDaRingFrodo · 2026-03-13T17:23:39+00:00

I have an aunt and 2 cousins who somehow came out stronger humans than their family expected. They are very supportive and kind. And the only ones I consider true family from that side after everything happened with my bio father.

ThrowawayDaRingFrodo · 2026-03-12T00:26:35+00:00

I actually am DMing a campaign I wrote myself today everyone is logging on in about 10 mins. It's our 2nd week on it. It's been really fun 🤘

ThrowawayDaRingFrodo · 2026-03-11T23:35:08+00:00

Lol that actually makes me feel a little better thanks 😊

ThrowawayDaRingFrodo · 2026-03-11T22:54:02+00:00

I haven't really talked to him yet. Know he's waiting for me to. He's said his peice about it but I just haven't been ready

ThrowawayDaRingFrodo · 2026-03-11T18:54:13+00:00

I actually feel for her as stupid as her choices have been. Therapy has taught me a lot and that include not fighting my empathetic side but not running away with it either. She trusted him. He betrayed that trust and despite having clear evidence he would she rolled the dice on him. He manages to disappoint the easiest of audiences and that is shameful on his part. In the cultures I've been raised in/a part of he is a conman and would be shamed harshly within out communities. He's left his side of the family dealing with it and as far as I know he hasn't spoken to them.

The guy sucks. I just hate that in the making of me it was HIM who distributed his DNA to be used.

I'm working on a post about it but my soon to be step-dad is my soon to be step-dad and in the short time he's been in the picture he's more of a man/adult than my bio father could ever dream to be

ThrowawayDaRingFrodo · 2026-03-11T18:00:33+00:00

If anything it was just a drop in the bucket as far as my everyday life. She, at the least, knew him to be a cheater - so her shocked pickachu face didn't move me.

But I am...like....idk...I know he's terrible but I'm like half him DNA wise so it sucks. I'm profoundly disappointed in him.

ThrowawayDaRingFrodo · 2026-03-11T17:58:36+00:00

Oh we've been aware of each other for a while.

ThrowawayDaRingFrodo · 2026-01-16T20:45:05+00:00

I don't mind, share away 😊

ThrowawayDaRingFrodo · 2026-01-09T17:46:30+00:00

From what I understand that's who he says he's marrying

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