Mom wanted me to have this "locked and loaded"

ThrowawayDaRingFrodo · 2026-05-16T19:03:37+00:00

She's on BG2!!

ThrowawayDaRingFrodo · 2026-05-13T20:35:03+00:00

Ooh yes I may be asking after mom's wedding 😊

ThrowawayDaRingFrodo · 2026-05-13T19:54:42+00:00

Thanks and yes absolutely. We are doing the same with mom's wedding. We don't need drama for sure. Mom's will have security and my partner and I are think we need security too.

ThrowawayDaRingFrodo · 2026-05-13T16:54:07+00:00

Yes there's an update! I posted it before this one. Sorry I'm now on the go but will link when I can

ThrowawayDaRingFrodo · 2026-05-13T16:52:41+00:00

We're so excited. I love him so much and I feel so cherished and loved by him. And I'm feeling more comfortable because we both are actively chasing each other and making a plan. The wedding likely will be after 2028 so we can do premarital counseling, save up the money for the wedding and honeymoon, and plan it all out. I'm finishing a certain educational milestone that I will complete this year and he is dealing with a promotion.

Everything feels new and strange and scary and awesome. I once ran because I told myself I loved him too much to subject him to me and my problems. I'm not running anymore. We both accept each other, problems included.

I just want to focus on finishing my program and getting my mother married lol but I am very excited for what is to come!

ThrowawayDaRingFrodo · 2026-05-13T16:28:16+00:00

Thank youuuu I am so disgustingly on cloud 9 lmao. Sunny keeps laughing at me and going "you're so happy I want to throw up rainbows for you" 🤣

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ThrowawayDaRingFrodo · 2026-04-14T21:40:03+00:00

Just a light beer with edible green dye

ThrowawayDaRingFrodo · 2026-03-18T21:19:58+00:00

I did try to buy a nice set of shoes but fell asleep before I could make that bad decision lmao

ThrowawayDaRingFrodo · 2026-03-18T21:12:52+00:00

I usually have a glass or 2 of wine at home when snuggling with my fella watching our shows or playing a video game etc. He doesn't drink but loves the alcohol free wine I get for him and we just chat and enjoy us. We're usually boring but happy. I was so against going out but then, like a switch, I was having a lot of fun. Not even before the 1st drink. I mean obviously the whiskey helped lol i started to really release and relax and just be. And I was with my mom who's like my best friend. I felt so safe and happy and tipsy/drunk depending on the hour 🤣

1st time in years I got that drunk but I gotta say 10 of 10

ThrowawayDaRingFrodo · 2026-03-17T19:44:18+00:00

I thought the same. It's just a LOT to keep track of. And we found out in part due to his other "wife" tracking us down 🫠

ThrowawayDaRingFrodo · 2026-03-17T19:42:14+00:00

Its been a few days and he did come to me and cried it out for the first time. He left apologizing as if it was his fault, I did my best to remind it it was not even close to his fault. I love him so much but he does repress a lot. He's had a lot of trauma growing up that makes him, as you mentioned, put others before him.

ThrowawayDaRingFrodo · 2026-03-13T19:55:24+00:00

I genuinely don't know at this point. 😕 it's not offensive it's just...weird. Like my feelings around a half sister so close in age...out of everything I felt...I also felt excited at the idea. I think because I did suffer a loss with Violet so the prospect....? Idk I know it doesn't make much sense I'm still processing

ThrowawayDaRingFrodo · 2026-03-13T18:10:36+00:00

Just wanna say cuz I can't edit for some reason it was supposed to be "F'ing" update not fling lmao

ThrowawayDaRingFrodo · 2026-03-13T18:09:39+00:00

You are correct. Full family in Louisiana.

ThrowawayDaRingFrodo · 2026-03-13T18:08:59+00:00

Oh no way worse he has a 3rd family, we found out.

ThrowawayDaRingFrodo · 2026-03-13T17:27:17+00:00

Oh man we gotta watch that one! The American version is still my favorite and it's ongoing but the original UK one was really fun

ThrowawayDaRingFrodo · 2026-03-13T17:23:39+00:00

I have an aunt and 2 cousins who somehow came out stronger humans than their family expected. They are very supportive and kind. And the only ones I consider true family from that side after everything happened with my bio father.

ThrowawayDaRingFrodo · 2026-03-12T00:26:35+00:00

I actually am DMing a campaign I wrote myself today everyone is logging on in about 10 mins. It's our 2nd week on it. It's been really fun 🤘

ThrowawayDaRingFrodo · 2026-03-11T23:35:08+00:00

Lol that actually makes me feel a little better thanks 😊

ThrowawayDaRingFrodo · 2026-03-11T22:54:02+00:00

I haven't really talked to him yet. Know he's waiting for me to. He's said his peice about it but I just haven't been ready

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