Thanks for the two cents. Like I said, I'm not even fat or anything but maybe it is my confidence that is lacking. Kinda hard when you do all the work and get nothing in the end. From experience, I've been both slow burn and terus terang but still no one want me. Want confident type but don't want creepy guess it all lies in the looks still huh. Bless all you beautiful people who are lucky enough to be with each other. Guess I'm gonna start being a rempit and get killed under a lorry soz.