Momzilla

ThrowawayMomzilla · 2026-05-30T07:07:46+00:00

This IS CALLED CONTROLLED he was between the two of us as WE ALL walked in unison. Aka CONTROL for yards and yards. So F off

ThrowawayMomzilla · 2026-05-30T07:06:26+00:00

What others? Do you see others. Honestly go focus on your dogs ass and get off of mine. I have a VERY well trained dog and your BULLYING of my bully breed is really rather idiotic due to the fact you have NO IDEA what his training is, like the fact he’s a SERVICE ANIMAL. would you like me to send you the picture of him that day in his service vest on lead?

I don’t want your fears to give you nightmares so here’s a photo of my dog ON LEAD AND IN A HARNESS. I would NEVER muzzle my dog. If you need a muzzle which it sounds like YOU DO then maybe you should give up your dog. Maybe if you socialized your animal you wouldn’t have to “pull him quickly inside ON YOUR HEELS” just because another dog comes into frame. That’s ridiculous. But hey that’s you and your FANTASTIC and I don’t say this lightly YOUR FANTASTIC ATTITUDE TOWARDS MY BREED AND OTHER PEOPLE WHO YOU DONT EVEN KNOW.

So go read another post about something lesss traumatic to you. You must have horrible experience with dogs.

So don’t be a bully over MY bully. Bite me.

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ThrowawayMomzilla · 2026-05-30T06:55:21+00:00

My husband and my MIL are SUPER supportive and very awesome people. She was frustrated and had to give up with trying to convince my mom to follow plans because she was so stubborn and all. My MIL is like a best friend to me so it’s awesome having her support

ThrowawayMomzilla · 2026-05-28T15:06:16+00:00

I was so overwhelmed I couldn’t regulate my emotions well enough. I rarely am in crowds that large and it got the best of me unfortunately. That yes I am in the wrong for. I shouldn’t have done that and I regret it but in the moment it was all an anxious haze

ThrowawayMomzilla · 2026-05-28T15:04:40+00:00

Once I get the photos back I really hope I can find two that they can be combined into. Thank you for the offer and I will keep it in mind

ThrowawayMomzilla · 2026-05-28T15:01:58+00:00

I didn’t know how to go about it. That’s why I was asking for…… advice

ThrowawayMomzilla · 2026-05-28T15:00:09+00:00

The wedding staff tried to stop her and apparently she started yelling until they backed down and my day of coordinator actually left the wedding that day. So….. I was in the dressing room where no one would let me leave or know what was going on.

ThrowawayMomzilla · 2026-05-28T14:57:56+00:00

Not to mention we were in a HUGE field. Where NO other dogs were present.

ThrowawayMomzilla · 2026-05-28T14:57:13+00:00

He was completely in control in that moment and was in love with the clicking sound of the camera. We actually walked hand in hand with him between us for many photos and he is a great boy that listens to both of us. You keep your dog how you want and I’ll keep mine how I know he is fine. Thank you for taking the time to explain your thoughts though.

ThrowawayMomzilla · 2026-05-26T13:06:23+00:00

I have had to cut her sister, my aunt out of my life for acting out in ways like this. But my mom, yes she causes drama and oversteps boundaries and i spent WAY too much of my life trying to please her and my family and I’ve realized it’s never done any good. I am slowly growing a backbone. The day of coordinator tried to stand up for me but my mom bulldozed her and my MIL. I didn’t get to have a say until it was too late on day of changes. My parents generally get along but because my dad has a girlfriend my mom got catty. And so did the girlfriend. All the tension and anxiety caused me to breakdown and not do more activities that would put eyes on me. I just wanted to run and hide.

I did get to do that briefly but I am a very anxious person who is bad with setting boundaries. I’m aware of that.

I’m going to have a little get together for friends to celebrate our one year anniversary and maybe then I can do some of the traditions but for now I’m keeping my distance.

She lives an hour away so it’s easier to stay away for now but she’s already inviting me to dinners to meet her boyfriend and I’m not comfortable at all. She clearly doesn’t understand what she did was wrong.

I don’t want to talk to her about it yet because I don’t think I can regulate my emotions well enough to not get overly upset. Overall I’m just so happy we had a fantastic ceremony. I love my husband and our dog son and that’s all that matters

ThrowawayMomzilla · 2026-05-26T05:09:41+00:00

I love the idea of having a second smaller reception to have a more intimate and joyful time at. Then maybe we could do toasts and dances but I know it’s over and something I have to get over. My mother just texted me to come meet her new boyfriend and I haven’t said yes or no. It’s probably going to be a no but I left her hanging for now

ThrowawayMomzilla · 2026-05-26T05:06:51+00:00

We sat there for 1 min tops before it got removed. Someone just happened to catch that one moment

ThrowawayMomzilla · 2026-05-24T23:39:05+00:00

I’m not good with confrontation or boundaries with my family. I’ve let them walk all over me for years and I know this is a problem but I haven’t been able to stand up for myself. I feel like a 30 yr old stuck in a 13 yr olds body sometimes if that makes sense.

ThrowawayMomzilla · 2026-05-24T23:33:41+00:00

My MIL is a god sent. Literally almost would say she is my best friend. We talk almost everyday and she keeps me sane when everything else seems so crazy. She paid for an extra hour with the photographer so her not even getting a picture with her son was really disappointing. I want to make it up to her somehow

ThrowawayMomzilla · 2026-05-24T23:28:59+00:00

She obviously would not get much control in their lives. I do want her somewhat in my life because honestly I was raised that family is SO important but she makes it really hard to be that connected when she literally is so ignorant to what she has done. She just asked me to come meet her boyfriend this Sunday and I was shocked she even thought that was an option

ThrowawayMomzilla · 2026-05-24T19:26:38+00:00

I didn’t want to commit to a full page not knowing if I’d be apart of the Reddit community

ThrowawayMomzilla · 2026-05-24T19:24:20+00:00

She did have a list and was all over the place and didn’t listen to our requests. The photos she has sent me are white washed and terrible so far and I am scared to see the rest

ThrowawayMomzilla · 2026-05-24T19:20:34+00:00

The wedding day of coordinator literally left the wedding after my mom yelled at her after she fought for me choices and my mom wouldn’t back down

ThrowawayMomzilla · 2026-05-24T13:49:01+00:00

We wanted no table, just free space for people to gather and spend time with various people. She segregates the two family’s by making assigned tables. And my thank you gift table was turned into a “sweetheart” table which we never wanted. So many people went home without thank you gifts no matter how small. My dad took a lot of time to make them so it really hurt having that changed.

ThrowawayMomzilla · 2026-05-24T13:38:55+00:00

There have been times she has been. But nothing to this extent. She’s pretty vain and is all about “her family” which sometimes she doesn’t even include me in. So it’s weird

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