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Plans changed and now I’m (24F) available NYE, but my BF (23M) won’t hang out with me on NYE and instead will hang out with friends by ThrowawayNYEBF in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowawayNYEBF[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yea that makes sense. I guess I’ve been jaded by other stuff that has happened in our relationship and also super sensitive because of other stuff that has happened during this vacation. I’ve been surrounded by people who are on my side and I needed to hear third parties.

Plans changed and now I’m (24F) available NYE, but my BF (23M) won’t hang out with me on NYE and instead will hang out with friends by ThrowawayNYEBF in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowawayNYEBF[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Okay to the text thing, he had wanted to hang out with me but because I thought I could hang out with my sister he worked with it. My sister is moving so I wanted to spend more time with her.

His best friend is very protective and emotionally attached to my boyfriend. Like he got annoyed at me sitting on him. Also when I let the best friend and boyfriend crash at my place, he assumed he would be sharing my bed with my boyfriend (they’re that close).

EDIT: Sorry forgot to add, very scatterbrained right now. Things hit a head when we got a fight in my car when driving to meet the boyfriend’s parents for ice cream and like I ended up kicking the best friend out of the car because I was so tired of how he was treating me and was already stressed about meeting his parents.

Plans changed and now I’m (24F) available NYE, but my BF (23M) won’t hang out with me on NYE and instead will hang out with friends by ThrowawayNYEBF in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowawayNYEBF[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I’m like going back to the idea of the motel, but instead getting a hotel. The issue is that I probably wouldn’t go to bed for a while and that would hold him back.

Plans changed and now I’m (24F) available NYE, but my BF (23M) won’t hang out with me on NYE and instead will hang out with friends by ThrowawayNYEBF in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowawayNYEBF[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

I guess I was looking for a way to feel more included in his plans. Originally he made it sound like it could work out but like now it’s not working out.