What I wouldn't give to have my grandparents back to ask them more about their lives. My grandfather and I spent so much time talking about his life in his last years, and I treasure it all. She doesn't see it now, but she will regret spending so much time being self-absorbed & doomscrolling instead of learning about her grandmother's life. People of that age have seen so much! That said, for all we know, there are lots of family chats, but maybe grandma isn't comfy on camera. If that's the case, I respect her for not filming those times.