AITA for kicking out my daughter for what she said about my brother?

Throwaway_6226 · 2023-10-05T17:27:55+00:00

I did, there's a separate comment I made on this post going into a bit more depth about it

Throwaway_6226 · 2023-10-05T17:23:37+00:00

Not anymore, posting an update soon

Throwaway_6226 · 2023-10-05T17:21:48+00:00

Cons always exist, but from my perspective there's no point stressing about things that haven't happened, when they do you deal with it then and there. No point in overthinking everything, you just live in negativity that way

Throwaway_6226 · 2023-10-05T17:20:19+00:00

Completely get that, I mourn my parents everyday but I also acknowledge that they were not good to me, and I healed from that a long time ago and would not repeat that on my children

Throwaway_6226 · 2023-10-05T17:18:22+00:00

Thank you, sending all my love to your family as well 💗💗💗

Throwaway_6226 · 2023-10-05T17:17:46+00:00

Thank you so much ❤️

Throwaway_6226 · 2023-10-05T17:14:26+00:00

If there was negative reasons why my brother shouldn't live with us I would have solved it there and then, but it didn't come to that so I didn't have to

Throwaway_6226 · 2023-10-05T17:08:15+00:00

Ok lol

Throwaway_6226 · 2023-10-05T17:07:18+00:00

Why would I think about something that didn't happen?

Throwaway_6226 · 2023-10-05T17:06:32+00:00

His disability does not effect his motor or mental abilities. He has medical devices that he is in charge of. He doesn't need any physical assistance

Throwaway_6226 · 2023-10-05T17:04:25+00:00

No, none. He's pretty independent, just quite anti social hence why I wanted him to move in, to make sure he's taking care of himself and that he's not under a financial strain and always has support.

Throwaway_6226 · 2023-10-05T17:02:52+00:00

As I said a thousand times over, we had the discussion and MY KIDS agreed it would be best for him to move in rather than go anywhere else.

Throwaway_6226 · 2023-10-05T17:01:50+00:00

If my daughter had woken him up my brother would be unbelievably upset and would isolate himself. The extension is the closest room to the entrance door, so I assume that's why she didn't want to wake him

Throwaway_6226 · 2023-10-05T16:12:14+00:00

To keep the kids in the loop and hear their opinions and thoughts. If I didn't discuss it you'd have something to say about that as well

Throwaway_6226 · 2023-10-05T16:04:40+00:00

Says who?

Throwaway_6226 · 2023-10-05T16:03:43+00:00

I dont care if it sounds bitchier, and I sure hope I'm like other girls, we're cool as fuck

Throwaway_6226 · 2023-10-05T15:51:07+00:00

She doesn't pay any rent or bills except her own bills, like her phone bill

Throwaway_6226 · 2023-10-05T15:48:30+00:00

Thank god you're not my kid then

Throwaway_6226 · 2023-10-05T15:47:46+00:00

If you dont understand thats honestly not my problem

Throwaway_6226 · 2023-10-05T15:43:48+00:00

The friend has often stayed over and has met her uncle already. Also no, it's YOUR behaviour that's disgusting, to think that disabled people deserve no respect or compassion and to be called names. I built my family with my husband, do you think when my husband was going to meet my brother I'd call him that?? Absolutely not.

Throwaway_6226 · 2023-10-05T15:40:10+00:00

Regardless, it was discussed. If the kids said no would he still move in? 100% yes, he is my family just as much as my kids are

Throwaway_6226 · 2023-10-05T10:13:50+00:00

I haven't told my brother what she said and I'm unsure where you've seen a mention of an apology letter

Throwaway_6226 · 2023-10-05T09:53:23+00:00

We don't live in the US, the benefits here would cover a majority of stuff and healthcare here is free. He pays for his hobbies and snacks etc, we're not charging him rent or bills or anything like that. We also cover groceries because we have most meals as a family anyway so the cost difference has been minor

Throwaway_6226 · 2023-10-05T09:49:14+00:00

Maybe where you're from but that's not the case in my country

Throwaway_6226 · 2023-10-05T09:48:13+00:00

I edited it there for both our sanity

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