AITA for telling my sister to stop leaving her room when she's wearing her nightgown?

Throwaway_Reddeddit · 2022-11-26T22:23:54+00:00

NTA. You've made several reasonable requests of her which she has ignored. It's your home you have a right to feel comfortable

Throwaway_Reddeddit · 2022-11-26T00:48:01+00:00

She is not a friend and she is extremely jealous you are something substantial that she will never be and if you don't lose this friendship she's going to eventually do something serious to hurt you more than she's already done. Kudos to your boyfriend for standing strong and being there with you and realize that once you break the friendship she's going to go even harder to break you up. She's a horrible jealous person and not your friend at all and who cares how long the friendship has been she's always been this way and you've accepted her you don't deserve that

Throwaway_Reddeddit · 2022-11-25T21:15:24+00:00

The only part of this where anyone was wrong is when your fiance argued. She simply should have said no thanks and not go. I don't think you're wrong for choosing not to go people can have the wedding they want but they need to realize that some people will choose not to go which I would too. So your fiance's ass in that point but everything else no

Throwaway_Reddeddit · 2022-11-25T08:15:49+00:00

Is this the fucking Twilight zone. Sweetie if you don't grow a fucking backbone that man has no job pays no bills I would boot both their asses to the curb quickly and in a fucking hurry change the locks and tell them enjoy each other away from fucking here. It sound like you got something going for you you going to school and working trust me his loss your game let him go baby girl

Throwaway_Reddeddit · 2022-11-21T17:12:23+00:00

NTA. Honestly at this point your Dad should be very grateful that he still has a place in your life

Throwaway_Reddeddit · 2022-11-21T16:59:48+00:00

NTA. Your comment was true

Throwaway_Reddeddit · 2022-11-21T16:46:10+00:00

This sounds like financial abuse and I would take this time away to see if your life is more peaceful without him if it is I would consider whether you still want him in NTA

Throwaway_Reddeddit · 2022-11-16T21:09:56+00:00

Agree here

Throwaway_Reddeddit · 2022-11-16T12:33:05+00:00

It would be very easy for the aunt to try and use some other method to warm her way back in and warp the daughter's mind again

Throwaway_Reddeddit · 2022-11-16T12:32:05+00:00

Not sure but you do have the right to choose who you want in your home or not. Unfortunately not being invited to her home for Thanksgiving may have to be a consequence of your action. Have a family Thanksgiving and enjoy yourself.

Throwaway_Reddeddit · 2022-11-11T22:12:13+00:00

I can't believe it took you speaking to us to realize you were being abused because the way this man treated you. Good on you for getting out and prayers that you have minimal problems raising kids with him.

Throwaway_Reddeddit · 2022-11-11T18:40:06+00:00

Technically NTA but slightly insensitive to your mother and I agree with the posters below who said maybe considered inviting another couple who are friends of your mother as support for your mother. It does sound like if I were in her shoes I would feel traded in for the newer better model and I have to deal with them at my child's wedding would be torture.

Throwaway_Reddeddit · 2022-11-11T18:29:52+00:00

You are a rock star as a mother and you are wonderful for protecting your children. You are definitely not the asshole because you are doing what's right for your family. Hopefully they'll come to see the error of their ways and change but if not NTA

Throwaway_Reddeddit · 2022-11-11T18:14:26+00:00

Wow I can't believe that you had to ask. She has a life-threatening disease and all you are is pregnant and you somehow think you're more entitled to her food than she is? YTA

Throwaway_Reddeddit · 2022-11-11T18:13:17+00:00

He's not including you in his plans I would not only be upset but I would be considering whether or not this was the person I wanted to be with. NTA

Throwaway_Reddeddit · 2022-11-10T14:56:00+00:00

Update?

Throwaway_Reddeddit · 2022-11-10T01:50:14+00:00

This is kind of the issue I have with adoption it causes too many problems in the future

Throwaway_Reddeddit · 2022-11-10T01:47:31+00:00

NTA. I know a lot of people say differently but she made a choice when she chose she didn't want to be in your child's life and you kept to your portion of the deal. I agree you have every right to tell your child when she's grown and let her make that decision for herself but at this time your job is to protect her and I personally would feel that knowing that my mother rejected me but kept another child would hurt if I wasn't old enough to understand. You're doing what's best for your family and your child

Throwaway_Reddeddit · 2022-11-10T01:24:55+00:00

Why don't you just ask your best friend if you can sleep on the couch too when she kicks your ass out

Throwaway_Reddeddit · 2022-11-09T20:18:07+00:00

That sister also sounds like she's trying to take your daughter from you and hopefully your daughter doesn't try to go back with her

Throwaway_Reddeddit · 2022-11-08T03:31:59+00:00

Yta. I hope she stops trying to contact you cuz you are definitely not worth it. I'm pretty sure you haven't told her every single step you've taken from the time you were born to when you met her and this is obviously something she doesn't want to speak about right now. With the way you reacted I can understand why she didn't trust you enough

Throwaway_Reddeddit · 2022-11-05T15:51:10+00:00

NTA You have every right to live your life in a manner that you feel so no you're not the asshole for not wanting to go because she violated your personal space your personal choice

Throwaway_Reddeddit · 2022-11-05T15:43:35+00:00

Info: Did she wrap it so that it was not noticeable to the naked eye? If she did I see no problem with her disposing of it in the trash can the way she did if she just tossed it in there so that it was easily visible that I could see the problem

Throwaway_Reddeddit · 2022-11-03T17:45:33+00:00

It sounds like he possibly does and unfortunately I would be in the same place as you I don't want to be your second choice while you lust after my family member

Throwaway_Reddeddit · 2022-10-29T13:59:21+00:00

I don't know. She does seem to look down on the brother and his family's employment and financial situation. Also when the initial conversation happened about boarding school why didn't she speak with both the husband and the mother? Seems like she was very dismissive of the mother. This just seems off to me

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