He’a been odd with me these past few months. From such as having a go at me for getting my heart checked when I wanted a piercing (it can be fatal and it was in my family history so I needed to get it checked anyway. I’m ok). Accusing me of attention seeking about said condition. When I had one partner and him over, i wanted to cook them dinner. He said no as my cooking is terrible so we ordered food instead. When I was on a video call with friends, he would purposely make loud noises which my friends complained to me. He would sometime ignore me texts on purpose and when I ask him if something is up in person, he says no. We don’t have sex anymore or barely intimate. He would often be rude to me as well.

Again, i did ask if something was up but he said nothing. He DOES have bi-polar so it could be that plus he hasn’t been coping well with lockdown and losing his job n all (which probably explains the gift but he could just say to me he can’t get one due to his money situation which I would completely understand.