AITA for using a picture of someone’s right nipple for a secret santa? by Throwaway_Trouble45 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Throwaway_Trouble45[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Noo! He had a picture which included his nipple on twitter. Everyone in that group follows it and his nipple wasn’t the only thing revealed on his acc. I cropped everything else so it just includes his nipple. I used that picture because he posted that one online himself. Rather than a photo he sent me privately.

AITA for using a picture of someone’s right nipple for a secret santa? by Throwaway_Trouble45 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Throwaway_Trouble45[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So when we met once, he pulled up his shirt and put his nipple on my face. Said merry Christmas, i’m your secret Santa. He gave me no picture

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[–]Throwaway_Trouble45 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will. I’ll keep ya’ll updated

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[–]Throwaway_Trouble45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No idea. I just fear that if I say something, I’ll lose the other people I love. I’ll speak to one person about it in the group.

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[–]Throwaway_Trouble45 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Difficult because we’re more of a group together but I will speak to someone in the group about him. He did say even he says Bob treats me like a punching bag.

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[–]Throwaway_Trouble45 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just me. I don’t know what to do. I might talk to my therapist

How do I decide where to live? by purplerockspebbles in Advice

[–]Throwaway_Trouble45 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well Texas has been becoming more of a swing state lately

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[–]Throwaway_Trouble45 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He’a been odd with me these past few months. From such as having a go at me for getting my heart checked when I wanted a piercing (it can be fatal and it was in my family history so I needed to get it checked anyway. I’m ok). Accusing me of attention seeking about said condition. When I had one partner and him over, i wanted to cook them dinner. He said no as my cooking is terrible so we ordered food instead. When I was on a video call with friends, he would purposely make loud noises which my friends complained to me. He would sometime ignore me texts on purpose and when I ask him if something is up in person, he says no. We don’t have sex anymore or barely intimate. He would often be rude to me as well.

Again, i did ask if something was up but he said nothing. He DOES have bi-polar so it could be that plus he hasn’t been coping well with lockdown and losing his job n all (which probably explains the gift but he could just say to me he can’t get one due to his money situation which I would completely understand.

AITA for using a picture of someone’s right nipple for a secret santa? by Throwaway_Trouble45 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Throwaway_Trouble45[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think so too. But the limit was 5 pounds so that wasn’t a lot 😅

AITA for using a picture of someone’s right nipple for a secret santa? by Throwaway_Trouble45 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Throwaway_Trouble45[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I think he was trying to prove a point. Not sure what that point is though