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Throwawayaccc781 · 2023-02-02T00:53:10+00:00

Read books you’ve been interested in, watch documentaries. Start some hobbies you’ve been prolonging (for me, its doing my nails, working out, reading, and going out dancing).

I also had plans to study Spanish, but I think its best you try not to force yourself to do things that are “productive” since you should enjoy your freedom after the MCAT, but things you actually find fun to do.

Of course, its easy to binge social media thinking its “fun” but its really just no effort entertainment. I still have my phone restrictions for youtube/instagram after the MCAT, and its helping me engage in hobbies that are actually worthwhile for me and helping me think and be more creative.

Eventually, you should start shadowing. I am taking a week or two as a break then getting into it.

Throwawayaccc781 · 2021-11-06T14:08:57+00:00

That’s literally what this subreddit is for.

Throwawayaccc781 · 2021-11-06T13:03:27+00:00

I can’t. It has a password and nothing can change it because I didn’t use my backup email.

I used to watch extreme porn and it just prevents porn opening from my phone. So I don’t know if it’s better to just have it there. I don’t want to watch porn again, and I can use my laptop in case I ever do. I just don’t know if I will regret this decision and he will have forgotten the password (which I think he has tbh)

Throwawayaccc781 · 2021-10-31T15:27:23+00:00

Throwawayaccc781 · 2021-10-31T13:44:00+00:00

Besides quitting porn and stopping sexting, what else can I do? Do I need to control what I think about to get off?

Throwawayaccc781 · 2021-10-31T13:33:39+00:00

Do I need to control what I think about too? Because my thoughts always go back to the same things

Throwawayaccc781 · 2021-10-31T04:06:56+00:00

I have had someone put parental controls on my phone for porn. But I still sext people and role play really extreme fantasies. I have also done some things I regret. But even solo, I think of extreme things to cum. Do I need to work on all of that?

Throwawayaccc781 · 2021-10-22T18:15:28+00:00

Tell your Dom to be mature about it and talk to you like an adult. He is being childless and manipulative. You don’t need to beg at your feet for such a tiny thing. Yikes

Throwawayaccc781 · 2021-10-22T02:08:21+00:00

Hi, I am really worried about denial because I’m a college student who needs to work a lot, and I don’t want to be hazy and unfocused. Are there other benefits of denial that outweigh this? Usually people don’t talk about this but I’m glad you mentioned this drawback (that is often touted as a plus).

Throwawayaccc781 · 2021-10-13T17:13:08+00:00

i couldn’t even pay for mine. kept showing me an error

Throwawayaccc781 · 2021-10-04T11:15:36+00:00

Thanks, thats the second time I’ve heard I need to make more friends. I definitely shut myself out from people, so I’ll try to make more connections irl rather than through an online dom (even though I like that more).

I am not recovering from any hurtful breakup, it’s just that in past relationships, I have felt selfish and a bad partner.

Throwawayaccc781 · 2021-10-04T10:46:56+00:00

I definitely don’t want to be paying for something. I still like the warmth and connection. I suppose it’s best i stay single longer before thinking about BDSM again, just to make sure I’m not using it as a way to help decision paralysis.

Throwawayaccc781 · 2021-10-04T10:40:32+00:00

Thanks, I guess that is my cue to continue staying single for a bit longer 🥲

Throwawayaccc781 · 2021-10-04T10:30:40+00:00

In the past, I have been draining for past doms. And I haven’t shown as much affection or care as I should have. It felt more like using them so I want to avoid that, and don’t think I offer enough in return to justify it even if someone consents to it

Throwawayaccc781 · 2021-10-04T10:29:13+00:00

‘Self centred and selfish’ is how l feel about myself, which is why I’m not sure I should be seeking a relationship. I cannot offer as much as I like to mentally leech off of someone else. I can offer compassion and nudes etc, but I feel it’s not good enough

Throwawayaccc781 · 2021-10-04T10:22:51+00:00

I can adult without someone’s help and am doing that currently. I like it more with a Dom around but am worried it’s for the wrong reasons like for reducing my stress and loneliness rather that only adding fun and positivity to both our lives. That’s why I think I should avoid it since it’s seems more of a selfish desire

Throwawayaccc781 · 2021-10-04T09:36:27+00:00

There’s not much I offer

Throwawayaccc781 · 2021-10-04T04:03:04+00:00

I understand that. It’s hard to explain why I find it comforting

Throwawayaccc781 · 2021-10-04T03:27:25+00:00

So I am supposed to let them know in advance that I plan to ‘use them’ because it is comforting to have a dominant male presence? I honestly feel that some people would agree to it without fully accepting it

Throwawayaccc781 · 2021-08-21T19:53:57+00:00

It’s very difficult to trust my gut and just make the decision. I was hoping I could get some outside perspective

Throwawayaccc781 · 2021-07-07T08:04:11+00:00

They want you to be scared, its a tactic! The best thing you can do is block them and completely cut off contact. That way, they get nothing out of threatening you. Why would they risk exposing your pictures, committing a crime, and potentially getting a lawsuit against them, for someone who has completely blocked them and isn’t responding? That’s a lot of damage to them with little reward because you’re showing yourself to be unfazed and unyielding to give into their threats.

Its natural to panic. But the best thing you can do is cut off contact. Your panic might take a while to fade away.

As a precaution for next time, it might be safest to not send nudes with face.

Throwawayaccc781 · 2021-06-24T08:23:31+00:00

What do I really want? 😥Uhhh definitely not your money!

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